“我今年27,现在慌得一比”、“27岁,90后的中年危机”、“27岁,你的同龄人正在抛弃你”······最近“27岁”这个词占领朋友圈头条,很多朋友都陷入了所谓的27岁焦虑怪圈。
他们说,同事眼里:27岁你应该是精明干练、四清六活。
他们说,亲戚眼里:27岁你应该是事业有成、名利双收。
他们说,父母眼里:27岁你应该是成家立业、结婚生子。
可你自己过自己的日子、活自己的生活,哪里来的那么多他们说,哪里来的那么多应该不应该。
27岁,你依然喜欢花草虫鱼
27岁,你依然迷恋满天繁星
27岁,你依然爱坐绿皮火车穿梭在旧城镇
27岁,你依然会再想骑骑自行车走走318
27岁,你依然可以说我想
27岁,你依然可以说我不
27岁,你依然爱哭爱笑爱疯爱闹爱世界
一句话,平庸的人27岁和26岁、28岁真的没得啥子区别。
两句话,不凡的人这一秒和前一秒、后一秒全部都是区别!
最后,很经典美国诗歌送给焦虑的你:
纽约时间比加州时间早三个小时,New York is 3 hours ahead of California,
但加州时间并没有变慢。but it does not make California slow.
有人22岁就毕业了,Someone graduated at the age of 22,
但等了五年才找到好的工作!but waited 5 years before securing a good job!
有人25岁就当上CEO,Someone became a CEO at 25,
却在50岁去世。and died at 50.
也有人迟到50岁才当上CEO,While another became a CEO at 50,
然后活到90岁。and lived to 90 years.
有人依然单身,Someone is still single,
同时也有人已婚。while someone else got married.
奥巴马55岁就退休,Obama retires at 55,
川普70岁才开始当总统。but Trump starts at 70.
世上每个人本来就有自己的发展时区。Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their TimeZone.
身边有些人看似走在你前面,People around you might seem to go ahead of you,
也有人看似走在你后面。some might seem to be behind you.
但其实每个人在自己的时区有自己的步程。But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.
不用嫉妒或嘲笑他们。Don’t envy them or mock them.
他们都在自己的时区里,你也是!They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!
生命就是等待正确的行动时机。Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
所以,放轻松。So, RELAX.
你没有落后。You’re not LATE.
你没有领先。You’re not EARLY.
在命运为你安排的属于自己的时区里,一切都准时。You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny setup for you