什么是无动机的爱?
不预设任何动机,不渴望从爱中博取什么,世间有这样的爱吗?
当爱没有被回报而内心不受伤,世间有这样的爱吗?
如果我向你奉上友情,而你却转身而去,我内心能否不受伤?
如果心怀友爱、宽宏、同情,还会产生受伤感吗?
显然,只要我有受伤感,只要我心存恐惧,只要我帮助你是期待你回助我、并美其名曰服务,那就没有爱。
明乎此,则答案自现。
——克里希那穆提《生命书:365观心日课》(The Book of Life: Daily Meditations with Krishnamurti)
Love Without Incentive
What is love without motive?
Can there be love without any incentive, without wanting something for oneself out of love?
Can there be love in which there is no sense of being wounded when love is not returned?
If I offer you my friendship and you turn away, am I not hurt?
Is that feeling of being hurt the outcome of friendship, of generosity, of sympathy?
Surely, as long as I feel hurt, as long as there is fear, as long as I help you hoping that you may help me—which is called service—there is no love.
If you understand this, the answer is there.