It is a nice book that you can think a thing from different aspects. It is still a great step for women to pursue their happiness and different life ways.
Some rules can make a limit for women who are struggled with the life and situations, with the development of society and country, everyone has opportunity to pursue their dreams and create themselves life. It doesn't need other people to evaluate it can evaluate by themselves.
Don't live in a situation that you need to look for other person's expectation or affirm. It's up to you.
It's an easy way to think it clearly.