坊间有一种说法:把每一天要当成最后一天来过。笑来老师说这种方法不好,笑来老师把每天都当成重生的第一天,他说要活在未来。活在过去就会永远被永远地困在过去,活在当下就会被困在当下,只有活在未来才有希望,而希望是生的前提。所以要把每天都当成重生的第一天,把每一年都当成重生的第一年。这就是我们组名字的由来。
新生组队员:刘峰 一棵树宋(宋宏坚)
成长不要孤灯枯坐,共同成长才能带来更快地成长,希望“峰树”组合再接下的一个月互相督促,践行到底。
鸡血视频:
视频三:How bad do you wanna be successful
视频三中英文对照(来自核聚老师的文章):
你究竟有多想成功
曾经有一个年轻人,他想赚很多很多的钱。他找到了一位他视为偶像的大师,告诉大师他想成为像大师一样强大的人。大师说,如果你想成为像我一样的人,那么明天早晨来海滩见我。
第二天,那个年轻人四点的时候就赶到了,想显得自己信心满满,西装革履。大师走过来摸着他的头问:“你有多想成功呢?”年轻人说:“我真的很想!”接着大师让他走下水。所以他就这样走进海里。海水差不多淹到年轻人的腰际。此时的他就像一个疯子一样。
年轻人心里想:“我只想赚钱,他却只教我游泳。我可不想成为一个救生员。我只想成功!”
大师察觉到这一点,他对年轻人说:“再走远一点。”然后年轻人又走远了一些。这时候水差不多已经淹到他们肩膀附近了。年轻人心里想:“这老家伙真是个疯子,他很会赚钱但却是个疯子。”
而大师却一直说:“再走远一点,再远一点。”这时候水已经快要淹没他的嘴了。此时大师让年轻人往回走,他说:“你告诉我你想成功的。”年轻人回答道:“是的!”
大师让他又走远了一点。这时候大师走进年轻人,把他的头按倒水里,再提起来,再按倒水里。就在年轻人快不行的时候,大师把他拎了起来。他对年轻人说我有话要告诉你:当你对成功的欲望足以与对呼吸的欲望媲美的时候,你就会成功。
我不知道在看视频的你们有多少人有过哮喘的体验?如果你曾经有过这种体验,你感到气息不足,你就会像这样深呼吸并喘气。这时候你唯一要做的,就是去吸取新鲜空气。此时的你不会在意NBA停摆,不会在意电视正在播什么,不会在意有没有人给你打电话,不会在意派对的琐事!这时候你在意的只是在呼吸的时候吸取一些新鲜空气,这就是全部了!当你理解到自己对成功的渴望就像对呼吸的渴望一样时,你就会取得成功!
让我来告诉你:
第一:你们好多人都说自己想要成功,但实际上没有那么想,只是有点想而已。
你们对成功的渴望甚至不如对派对的渴望,不如对耍帅的渴望。你们中的大多数人对成功的渴望甚至比不上对睡懒觉的渴望。
你们中的一些人甚至更愿意睡懒觉。我要告诉你,如果你是一个生来就要成功的人,你需要乐意放弃睡觉的权利。
你会愿意放弃两小时甚至是三小时的睡眠时间!如果你真的很想成功,某些时候,你将会连续三天熬夜。因为如果你这时候去睡觉,你也许会失去一些成功的机会。这正是考验你有多想成功的时刻。你会经历一些不眠之夜,听着,你甚至会因为成功而忘记吃饭。
碧昂斯说过,她曾经忙于一些失误以至于三天过去了,她竟然忘记自己都没有吃过饭。她太过于用心了!
我记得当50cent第一次当电影导演的时候,我采访过他!他当时说他如果不在做电影的时候,也一定是在做他的录音带!然后就有人问他:50cent,你什么时候睡觉?
50cent说:睡觉?只有破产的人才睡觉,我不睡觉,因为我现在有了一个实现梦想的机会!
不要哭泣不要想到放弃!你已经感受过疼痛,已经受过伤,争取得到奖赏吧!不要去睡觉,那是一种不成功的表现。
小子,听着,我今天告诉你:50cent你可以做自己想做的任何事,你可以随意的逛来逛去,花钱的时候你也可以花得很兴奋。但如果你没有狠狠地逼自己一把的话,你就不会成功的。
直到你不会再安慰自己说,其实我不需要那些钱,我已经拥有了我想要的一切!
How bad do you wanna be successful
There was a young man who you know he wanted to make a lot of money and so he went to this guru, right?
He told the guru “you know I wanna be on the same level you on”. And the guru said “if you wanna be on the same level I’m on, I’ll meet you tomorrow at the beach.”
So the young man got there at 4am, he allready to rockn roll, got on a suit,should a wore shorts.
The old man grabs his hand he says “how bad do you wanna be successful?” He said “real bad” He said “walk on out into the water”. So he walks out into the water. Watch this.When he walks out into the water it goes waist deep, So he’s like “this guy crazy”.
He’s thinkin’, “I wanna make money, he’s got me out here swimming. I don’t want to be a life guard, I want to make money.”
He got the meaning,so he said “come out a little further” he walked out a little further till it was right around this area,the shoulder area.So this old man crazy, he making money but he crazy.
He said “come out a little further”, He came out a little further and it was right at his mouth. He’s like “I’m about to get outta here this guy outta his mind”.
So the old man said “i thought you wanted to be successful?” he said “i do” he said “walk a little further” he came, dropped his head in, held him down, holdin him down, the man kickin and scratching. Hold him down, he had held him down, Just before he was about to pass out, he raised him up. He said “I got a question for you",he told the guy.
He said:“ when you want to succeed as bad as you wanna breathe, then you’llbe successful.”
I do not know how many of you all have asthma in here today, but have you ever had an asthma attack before, you are short of breathe,(…?) you’re weezy, and the only thing you’re trying to do is get some air.
You do not care about no basketball game! You don’t care about what’s on TV. You don’t care about anybody calling you. You don’t care about a party.
The only thing you care about when you trying to breathe is getting some fresh air, that’s it!
When you get to the point where all you wanna like to be is successful as bad as you would want to breathe, then you will be successful!
I’m here to tell you that the No.1 the most of you say you want to be successful but you don’t want it bad , you just kind of want it.
You don’t want it badder than you would like to party, you don’t want it as much as you wanna be cool, most of you don’t want success as much as you want to sleep! Some of you love sleep more than you lovesuccess. And I’m here to tell you that if you’re going to be successful you’ve got to be willing to give up sleep.
You got to be willing to work of three hours, two hours. If you really want to be successful somedays you’re going tohave to stay up for three days in a row! Because if you go to sleep you mightmiss the opportunity to be successful. That’s how bad you have to want it.
Listen to me, You gotta want to be successful so bad that you forget to eat. Beyonce said once she was on the set, doing her thing. Three days has gone by, she forgot she didn't eat, cause she was engaged.
I never forgot when 50 Cent was doing his movie. When he wasn’t doing his movie, he was doing his soundtrack. And they said, “When do you sleep 50!?” “Sleep?!”, he said, “Sleep?! Sleep is forthose people who are broke. I don’t sleep. I got an opportunity to make a dreama reality.”
Don’t cry and quits. You’re already in pain, you’re already hurt, get a reward from it! Don’t go to sleep until you succeed.
Listen to me, I’m here to today to tell you can come here, you can jump up, you can do?? You can be excited when we give away money. But listen to me you will never be successful if I have to so much as give you a dime…
You won’t be successful until you say “Idon’t need that money cause I got it in here!”