There is a dilemma for lady today widely exist in work place. because women are suppoed to marry and give birth to one ,two, three babies at their shining 20's and 30's. However, their career also require their effort without any preserve. So, it is always a A or B question. Few woman can choose A&B. Too many lessons to finish at the timing.
How can we survive?
In fact, the answer is simple. Make time counts.
Do the right things. If you want a boyfriend, just do the things that will works. For example, keep fit and learn make-up and out-fit. But the point is that, when I go to work,I want to be more like a man and try to be less atractive. It is somehow a kind of self-protect. I am afriad that my co-workers trying to hit on me or trying to introduce someone, making things complex. As this had happened and I don't find a good solution.
I think,maybe this can also be solved in an easy way. the sincre. Just do the things you want to do. Do not try to cheat yourself as well as other people.
Q:Are you single?
A:Yes, I am single, and I have no experience. And I have no specific idea what kind of person I like.
Q:When do you plan to find the one to marry?
A:It depends. If I meet someone,maybe tomorrow. If I don't,I will try to be someone like zhangguimei. Make my career my wholelife.take good care of my family, myself and my career.
Q:Will you try hard to meet the one?
A:Yes, I will enjoy my life more,and trying to live more happy. And that will make a person charming. Of course,neccesary social activity should be considered. But the activity better have other value, exercise for example. And all the try should be after the work is done properly.
Q:Are you afraid of being alone in your new work?
A:Yes, but it is OK, because the more important thing is to work good.
All in all.
My Work goal: 90 point by 60 effort.
My relation principle: work first,
Learn politely: if you konw things what I don't, you are my teacher and I respect you. whatever the things are.
NO gigle: At the same time,do not gigle, if you can not learn to smile. As gigle means too nice and not confident instead of just being nice.
Key words for stage 1: honest; learn; polite; no gigle;
Key words for stage 2:90 point by 60 effort.; career development; life blue vision.
2022.11.20
