李小璐出轨，你们一个个的激动的，就忘记了自己出轨的时候的欢呼雀跃的模样，还有那得意洋洋的样子是吧。
刘阳出轨了，你和他的区别是什么？我是问男生。区别仅仅只是差500万个粉丝是吗？阿沁连婚房都买好了，就等着刘阳一句话，但是他出轨了。当时那个消息真的一出来，我第一时间不是生气，我回想到了刘阳有一个视频，后备箱里全部都是鲜花的那个视频，现在抖音里还有，那个很多人都以为是刘阳的求婚视频，他的人设只是宠女友，具体多少个女友，这个未知。渣男渣的真的是全世界都知道了。她已经准备好了嫁给他，但是他出轨了。
Li Xiaolu is derailed. If you are excited one by one, you will forget the joyful appearance of your derailment, and the smug look.
Liu Yang is derailed. What is the difference between you and him? I am asking a boy. The difference is just a difference of 5 million fans? Auntie’s marriage room was bought, and she waited for Liu Yang’s words, but he was derailed. At that time, the news really came out. I was not angry at the first time. I thought of Liu Yang’s video. The video in the trunk is all flowers. Now there is still a vibrating voice. Many people think that it is Liu Yang. The marriage proposal video, his people are just pet girls, how many girlfriends, this is unknown. The slag male slag is really known all over the world. She is ready to marry him, but he is derailed.
同样的青春，同样的五年。青春的爱情里，无非就是一个在计划未来，一个在计划分手。事发后男生坦然小三也是受害者，除了给自己树立了一个暖男形象，对第三者的偏袒，剩下的也只是一个对不起。出轨这种事，其实现在社会中，尤其是当代的丑恶青年，经不起诱惑，也没有正确的三观。但是事情发生了，就应该承担责任，就应该去面对应该发生的恶果。第三者被解约了，结果网友们纷纷来怼正牌女友：这就是你想要的结果？讲真的，第三者本身就是错误的，她抢别人男朋友的时候就应该想到她是一个第三者。这是违背道德的啊。没有道德底线。受害者当然是正牌女友了。我真的应该有空好好给广大网友树立一下正确的三观以及社会风气了。。
The same youth, the same five years. In the love of youth, nothing more than one is planning the future, and one is planning to break up. After the incident, the boy was calm and the third child was also a victim. In addition to setting himself up as a warm man, he was partial to the third party and the rest was just a sorry. In the case of derailment, in fact, in today's society, especially the ugly youth of the present, they cannot withstand the temptation and have no correct three views. But when things happen, you should take responsibility and you should face the consequences that should happen. The third party was dismissed, and as a result, netizens came to the real girlfriend: Is this what you want? To be honest, the third party is wrong in itself. When she grabs someone else's boyfriend, she should think that she is a third party. This is against morality. There is no moral bottom line. The victim is of course a true girlfriend. I really should have time to set up a correct three-view and social atmosphere for the majority of netizens.
我昨晚看到了一个粉丝给我留言，确实感动了一番。对方说曾经看过我所有的视频。我有一万多个视频，删除的超过3000个了，你们早期知道我的，肯定也清楚了，过去那段旧时光暂且不提。内容提到，谁都可以抵达幸福的终点，沿途经历过的啊，都是些风景。对啊，每个人都有船票，为了去更远更美的地方，只有不断的去更换船票。为了你去的地方很远，你爱的人很优秀，大家要一起努力，相信爱情。爱情的发生，一定是信任做的基础保障。
I saw a fan last night and I was really touched. The other party said that I have seen all my videos. I have more than 10,000 videos, and I have deleted more than 3,000. You know it well in the early days, and you must be clear. The old time in the past is not mentioned. The content mentioned that everyone can reach the end of happiness, and they have experienced some scenery along the way. Yes, everyone has a ticket, in order to go farther and more beautiful, only to constantly change the ticket. For the place you go, the people you love are very good. Everyone must work hard together and believe in love. The occurrence of love must be the basic guarantee for trust.
今天早晨收到了两个陌生人的信息。这两个，都是男生。跑过来问我一些情感问题。当然了。资深情感界正派的我，肯定乐意效劳了。其中有一个男生说，他曾经犯过一次错误，背着他的女朋友在外面和其他女生约会，虽然没有上床，对了，现在其实也挺流行约素炮的，就是两个人只是抱着睡了一晚，其实什么也没有做。所以让一些三观不正的人误认为确实没有发生什么，不算出轨。我先声明一下。站在女生立场，你有女朋友，你去和其他女生暧昧，这就意味着你已经开始选择新的女朋友了，只是你女朋友不知道，一旦发现，百分之八十女生会立刻分手。当然，也有真爱的百分之二十会选择原谅你。选择原谅你，并不意味着你可以继续欺骗他，狗改不了吃屎，大家都明白的道理。男生说被女朋友发现了之后，很是愧疚，并且从此女朋友对他严加看管，他感觉他很压抑时间久了他甚至得了抑郁症。他女朋友管教的方法有点不妥，一切所有的信息，都是他女朋友先看完之后，然后他再看。就是看的特别紧。其实这是女孩子特别没有安全感的表现，也是女生真正的很爱男生的表现吧。再后来过了几年，女生想结婚了，男生开始害怕了，特别害怕，男生跟我说，他特别爱女生特别想自私的占为己有，但是又不想这样继续经历被人看管的过程，并且女生不看管他，他肯定会再去暧昧的。所以结局就是相处了六年，两个人极其痛苦，无奈以分手为结局。现在估计也三十多岁了，男生啊现在都不敢找对象。其实这种行为，精神出轨的行为其实会比肉体出轨带来的伤害更大。感情很脆弱，人心更是
I received information from two strangers this morning. These two are straight men. Run over and ask me some emotional questions. Of course. The senior emotional community is decent, I am sure to be happy. One of the boys said that he had made a mistake and took his girlfriend outside to date with other girls. Although he didn’t go to bed, right, it’s actually quite popular. It’s just two people just sleeping. One night, in fact, nothing was done. So let some people who are not well-considered mistakenly believe that there is really nothing happening and do not calculate the track. Let me declare it first. Standing on the girl's position, you have a girlfriend, you go to other girls, this means that you have started to choose a new girlfriend, but your girlfriend does not know, once found, 80% of girls will immediately break up . Of course, 20% of true love will choose to forgive you. Choosing to forgive you does not mean that you can continue to deceive him. The dog can't change it. Everyone understands the truth. After the boy said that he was discovered by his girlfriend, he was very embarrassed, and since then his girlfriend has been strictly guarded by him. He feels that he is very depressed for a long time and he even got depression. His girlfriend's method of discipline is a bit wrong, all the information is after his girlfriend first read, and then he looks again. It is very tight to see. In fact, this is a performance of girls who are particularly insecure, and it is also the performance of girls who really love boys. After a few years, the girls wanted to get married, the boys began to be afraid, and they were particularly scared. The boys told me that he especially loved girls and especially wanted to be selfish, but did not want to continue to experience the process of being watched. And the girl doesn't care about him, he will definitely go to it again. So the ending is to get along for six years, two people are extremely painful, but helpless to break up. It is estimated that it is also in his thirties, and boys are not afraid to find an object. In fact, this kind of behavior, the behavior of mental derailment will actually be more harmful than the derailment of the body. Feelings are very fragile, people are more
另外一个男生情况就不太一样了。这个男生很爱他的女朋友，也可以说是追到了自己的女神，无奈，女神和其他男人开房了。当然，男生也承认了自己并不是什么好男人，因为我前面说了，这两个求助的男生都是真正的渣男。渣男不受伤吗？当你很渣很渣的时候，有一天，你遇到了一个特别喜欢的人，这时候，你就应该非常清楚，你的报应来了啊。这个就是现世报啊。人一生总会走几条弯路，上错几条船，也上错几张床。但是有些不良男男女女引以为骄傲，那就是三观不正啊。只有做正确的事情，才能得到幸福的生活。坚守原则，坚守自己的立场。世界上诱惑很多。又不只是感情。这个男生是问我，值不值得原谅。其实我觉得他心里应该已经有答案了。我跟男生说，如果女生认错，态度诚恳，犯了错误，认识到事情严重性，自然就解决了。他说他的女朋友把问题根源放在他那边，女生说是因为男生不够体贴，所以被人安排到了被窝里暖和了一下。女生说并不是很愿意和那个男生发生事情的。并且女生也后悔。但是女生不认错。这个男生就是比较纠结，因为这确实是他心爱的女神啊，他肯定不舍得女神哭了。其实爱，可以存在原谅。毕竟两个人都想结婚啊。选择了原谅，就意味着，要自己去承担那份痛苦。选择性的去忘记那些不愉快的事情。选择性的去记住和她的美好爱情。可能你们无法感同身受。想一下，你特别喜欢的人，在跟别人搞暧昧然后上床，你内心还能平静吗？这个多伤人啊。不过没关系，不是已经有了治愈的经验了么。无非就是，熬过来，不爱就分手，拜拜就拜拜，下一个更乖。等自己熬过来了，对方就真的什么也不是了。
选择原谅之后，就再去面对新的挑战，男生跟我说他特别担心特别害怕，因为不想再受伤了。男生说甚至都分辨不清楚真假了。其实我太能理解了。感情就是这样。既然接受了原谅。就要担当起责任，拥有爱的能力。就算你下地狱也根本没人关心你，你依然会义无反顾的至死不渝的选择做一个去爱你的人。让对方成为那个被爱的人。想要让对方拥有幸福。
The situation of another boy is not the same. This boy loves his girlfriend very much. It can also be said that he has chased his goddess. Helpless, the goddess and other men have opened the house. Of course, the boys also admitted that they are not good men, because I said earlier, the two boys who are asking for help are real scum men. Isn't the scum male injured? When you are very scum, one day, you meet someone you like very much. At this time, you should be very clear, your retribution is coming. This is the current report. People will always take a few detours in their lives, on the wrong boat, and on the wrong bed. But some bad men and women are proud of it, that is, three views are not correct. Only by doing the right thing can you get a happy life. Stick to the principle and stick to your position. There are many temptations in the world. Not just feelings. This boy is asking me, the value is not worth forgiving. In fact, I think he should already have an answer in his heart. I told the boys that if the girls admit their mistakes, they are sincere, they make mistakes, and they recognize the seriousness of the matter and naturally solve it. He said that his girlfriend put the root of the problem on his side. The girl said that because the boys were not considerate enough, they were arranged to warm up in the bed. The girl said that she was not very willing to have something to do with the boy. And the girls also regret it. But girls do not admit their mistakes. This boy is more entangled, because this is indeed his beloved goddess, he must not be willing to cry the goddess. In fact, love can be forgiven. After all, both people want to get married. Choosing forgiveness means that you have to bear the pain yourself. Selectively forget those unpleasant things. Selectively remember to remember her beautiful love. Maybe you can't feel the same. Think about it, people you particularly like, when you mess with others and go to bed, can you still be calm inside? This is a lot of hurts. But it doesn't matter, isn't there already a cure? Nothing is, squatting over, breaking up without love, worshipping bye, the next one is even more embarrassing. When you come over, the other party is really nothing.
After choosing to forgive, I will face new challenges. The boys told me that he is particularly worried about being particularly afraid because he does not want to be injured any more. The boys said that they even couldn’t tell the difference between true and false. In fact, I can understand it too. This is the feeling. Since accepting forgiveness. It is necessary to take responsibility and have the ability to love. Even if you go to hell, no one cares about you at all, and you will still choose to be a person who loves you. Let the other person become the one who is loved. I want to make each other happy.
