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Diane Koopman
Writer
6. She gives you the confidence and self assurance to be who you want to be
她给你自信并确信自己能成为想成为的人。
You know who you are and what you stand for. Having a strong mom gives you the confidence and self assurance to be who you want to be. You wear what you want and aren’t afraid of expressing yourself. You seek out knowledge by taking an interest in the world around you. Strong moms encourage their children to travel, meet new people, have diverse experiences and to never be afraid to try something new.
你知道你是谁，你知道为什么而奋斗。有一个坚强的妈妈能给你自信成为自己想成为的人。你穿自己想穿的衣服，不害怕表达自己。你通过对周围世界的兴趣而寻求知识，坚强的妈妈鼓励孩子去旅行，去交新朋友，去获取多样的体验而从不害怕尝试新事物。
7. She teaches you empathy
她教会你同情心。
One of the strongest traits in people who have been raised by strong mothers is their capacity to feel and display empathy. Moms love their children fiercely, but this maternal protection and affection extends out to anyone who comes into theirs and their children’s lives. Strong moms teach their children to be kind and display humanist qualities.
被坚强的妈妈抚养大的孩子，具有的最强的特征之一，是他们的感知能力和显现出的同情心。妈妈们当然非常爱自己的孩子，但这个母性的保护和爱延伸到任何一个开始她们自己及她们孩子的生活的人。坚强的妈妈教会孩子慈爱和善良的人文主义素质。
8. She shows you how to bring people together
她展示给你看怎样把人们集合在一起。
The importance of family, friendship and community is highlighted when you are raised by a strong mom. She shows you that you need other people and they need you. The value of reciprocity and generosity is exemplified and you learn that with strong alliances and connections, you will thrive.
当你有一位坚强的妈妈抚育你长大，你会非常重视家庭、友谊和公共团体的重要性，她会让你看到人和人之间的相互需要，互惠互助和慷慨大方的价值观是你的榜样，通过强大的同盟者的联合，你会茁壮成长。
9. She shows you how to be fiercely independent
她展示给你看怎么样是非常地独立。
Whilst needing others and relying on the resilience of good relationships, you are self sufficient and can get by in the world without needing others’ approval or permission. You can think for yourself and make your own decisions. You are a leader and will take others under your wing, just like how your mom looked after you.
尽管在某段时间你需要别人和依赖好的亲密关系的复原，但你的自给自足可以让你走过全世界而无需别人的批准和许可。你可以自己想好了以后自己做决定，你可以成为一个领导者将别人收入你的羽翼下，就像妈妈曾经怎样照顾你。
10. She tells you either to surrender or to change it
她告诉你要么屈服要么改变。
Being raised by a strong mom means you have a broadened mind. You don’t make value judgements and your propensity to learn, empathize and stay resilient requires you to be accepting of most situations. You don’t complain. You either truly accept the circumstances or you change them.
被一个坚强的妈妈抚育长大意味着你有宽阔的思维大脑。你不做价值审判，你倾向于学习，同理心，保持适应性，这些都需要你能接受很多不同的情况。你不抱怨，你要么确实接受环境，要么你改变环境。
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