What are some of the lessons one should definitely learn at their 20s?
有哪些20多岁时一定要学会的经验？
1.Having a job is not a bad idea.It puts food on your table, it pays your bills.
1.有工作并不是坏主意。它可以提供桌上的吃的，可以帮你付账单。
2.Your dad/mum is right.Believe me, they're right with most of the things you don't believe in.
2.你的父母是对的。相信我，大多数你不相信对的事他们都是对的。
3.There is nothing as overnight success.Work hard for your goals.
3.没有什么事是一夜就成功的。为你的目标努力吧。
4.You might still fail even when you work fucking hard.The truth is, you don't have absolute control over anything. So, be flexible.
4.你可能非常的努力也还是失败了。真相是，你对任何事情都没有觉得控制权。因此，灵活点
5.Your family members are the most important people in your life.Respect them, in most cases, they matter more than your friends.
5.你的家庭成员是你生命中最重要的人。尊重他们，大多数情况下，他们比你的朋友重要多了。
6.You're going to fail hard.You will, take it as your achievement.
6.你要努力失败。你会把它当做你的成就。
7.No one cares.Except your parents, even your friends might not care.
7.没有人关心，除了你的父母，甚至你的朋友们可能都不关心。
8.No one will help you.Only you can help yourself.
8.没人会帮你。只能你能帮你自己。
9.This is not the time for you to ruin your body.Take good care of your body, you can't undo the damages in your 30s and 40s.
9.现在不是毁掉自己身体的时候。照顾好的你的身体，不然30多岁和40多岁的时候你可能避免不了损伤。
10.Don't waste time.Same with your health, you can't gain it back.
10.不要浪费时间，和你的身体一样，你重新获得不了时间和身体。
11.You're responsible for everything.Don't push them to anyone else.
11.你要对很多事负责，不要推给其他人。
12.He/she might not be the one.You might experience serious heartbreak, but it's not the end of the world.
12.他或她可能不是你命中注定的那个人。你可能会经历过几次难过心碎，但是这不是世界的终点。
13.You need to stop complaining.It does nothing and changes nothing.
13.你需要停止抱怨，抱怨一点用都没有，改变不了任何事。
14.Start budgeting.Money is fucking important, learn to manage it.
14.开始做预算。金钱太重要了，学会如何管理。
15.Use YOLO the right way. You only live once, so do something meaningful.
15.你只会活一次，所以多做一些有意义的事吧。
16.Read more.It’s time to communicate with solid substance.
16.多阅读。是时候和书多交流了。
17.You're not that special.If you really want to become someone, work for it.
17.你不是特殊的。如果你真的要成为什么人，努力吧。
18.Your weaknesses don't matter.So, please don't be afraid to make mistakes. No one expects you to be perfect.
18.有弱点没关系。不要害怕犯错。没有人会期待你是完美的。
19It's not the last 3 years of your life.Don't live in a hurry.
19.这并不是你生命中的最后三年，不要活的这么匆忙。
20.Consistency is the key.Every achievement requires the test of time, master something with consistency.
20.稳定也是关键。每一次成就都需要时间的考验，掌握一些稳定性的东西。
21. Outcome is not equal to intention.Most people have good intention, but the outcome might be varied. Don't judge anyone based on an outcome. And never define yourself based on your outcome too. Double check on the intention.
21.结果并不等同于意图。大多数人都有好的出发点，结果结果大相径庭。不要只从结果判断其他人。所以也不要只用结果判断自己。仔细检查自己的目的。
22. Happiness comes from within.Stop searching and chasing for external things to fulfill yourself. None of them will and you will end up with bigger disappointment. Happiness is already there, within yourself.
22.幸福来自内心。停止寻找并追求外在的东西来满足你自己。没有人会这样做，你最终会更失望。幸福就在你自己的心里。
原文作者及出处：Dean Yeong,，from Quora
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