当班主任第三年 The Third Year of Being a Homeroom Teacher

越走近“教育”,越明白那些东西不重要

那些展望,模范,信以为真的观念

外界的声音来来去去,吵吵嚷嚷,听着听着就迷失了

我总觉得,能不能为一颗种子提供肥沃的土壤,让她尽可能地长出自己的可能性又不塑造她的可能性,才是对一个生命应有的珍视和尊重,这才是教育者的任重而道远。

我每天都很期待看见他们,我也会告诉他们

种下一个苹果,就会长出一棵苹果树

种下一个梨,就会长出梨树

无论邻居是毛毛虫还是粉红色的蝴蝶

孩子们,很感谢你们

在我的每一个日子里,绽放

我们也许像百果园,哦不,百花争艳

花园也会有残花落叶,那是生命的一部分

今天早晨散步回来

看见园林叔叔用吹风机把落叶从灌木丛里吹出来

可能是要很久才会腐烂,他不想等吧

今天晚上听到一个很漂亮的故事

一种蝴蝶,它的脑袋只有针头那么大

它在一个树枝上脱蛹成蝶后飞了几百迈到另一个地方去飞来飞去

然后又飞了几百迈回到原来的那棵树

原来的那个树枝,继续下一轮生命周期

它记得路,它面对困难

它探索世界,它遵循生命

孩子们,你们以后也会成为参天大树

我就是那只蝴蝶,借着你们的树荫

飞一下这边,飞一下那边

我可以走来走去,你们可以看我走来走去

在彼此的生命的周期里

相伴

每一天都很新奇

不要被小小的观念,信仰所定义

当你不知道自己是谁的时候

你就是生命本身

学习,角色,用处

不过是提供一种便利

方便他人和自己

不应该用这些芝麻粒的东西来定义你的生命

你们要学习驾驭它们,它们只是工具

我们用它来服务社区和自己

生存是必要的,这有什么难的呢?

蝴蝶都能做得到,我们可是智人

当然,你想与旁边的人比,另当别论

生存不过是为了让我们更好地享受自己

傅雷先生说先成为人,然后是艺术家音乐家

最后才是钢琴家

我偷偷加一个吧,我们要看见自己是一个生命

是一部分伟大的自然

我们应该要把生命活出来,然后忘记自己

我们中国的山水画最有意思了

你看那山河画得那么宏伟,壮观

人却只有小小的一个点,半撇墨

孩子们,常常看看周围的世界

脑袋太小装不下真理也解决不了幸福

常常走出来,看见这个世界

看看天空的辽阔,听听大海的深邃

闻闻大山的庄严,感受到宇宙的无际无边

所以我看见你们时,眼里常常有光

不是因为我,而是你们。

The more I get closer to "education," the more I realize that those things don't matter. The visions, the models, the beliefs.

The sounds of the outside world come and go, noisy. Listening to them can easily get lost. I always thought that if we can provide fertile soil for a seed to grow its own possibilities as much as possible without shaping its possibilities, that's how we cherish and respect a life which is a long way to go for educators. I look forward to seeing them every day and I told them. When you plant an apple seed, an apple tree will grow. When you plant a pear seed, a pear tree will grow. Whether the neighbor is a caterpillar or a pink butterfly. My child, thank you so much for being in my life every day, blooming. We may be like a hundred flowers blooming together. Sometimes there will have fallen leaves, it is a part of life, you see. I was back from a walk this morning and I see the gardener using a blower to ger the leaves out of the bushes. I thought it probably takes a long time for the leaves to rot, he doesn't want to wait.

I heard a beautiful story tonight. A butterfly whose head is the size of a pinhead. It pupates into a butterfly on a branch and flies hundreds of miles to another place and then flew a hundred miles back to the same tree.The same branch and then continue to go on to the next cycle of life. It remembers the way, it faces the difficulties, It explores the world, it just follows life.

Child, you will become a big tree. And I will be the butterfly, by your shadow. Fly this way, fly that way. I can walk around, you can watch me walk. We share our life in the cycle of each other's lives.

Every day is new, don't be defined by small ideas or beliefs. If you don't know who you are, think of yourself as the life itself or you are a piece of life.

Learning, roles, usefulness. It's just a convenience. Convenient for others and yourse. You shouldn't be defined by these little things.You have to learn how to harness them. They're tools. We use it to serve the community and ourselves.

Survival is necessary. But it's not a problem. Butterflies can do it. We're Human beings. Of course, if you want to compare with the others that's another matter. Survival is only for us to enjoy ourselves better.

Mr. Fu Lei said first you have to be a person and then an artist, a musician and lastly the pianist. I want to put something in front of them. I think first of all we are a piece of life. We are a part of the great Nature. We should live out our lives and then forget ourselves.

You see, the Chinese water painting is really interesting. They paint the mountains and rivers magnificent but only put a dot as the human. People are only a small point on the painting.

My lovely child, look at the world around you. The brian is too small for the truth and happiness. Go and see the world. Look at the vastness of the sky, listen to the depth of the sea. Smell the majesty of the mountain, feel the boundless universe.

You know when I see you there's always a light in my eyes. Not for me, but for you.

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