1.排序的控制是一个UITableViewCellReorderControl，但这是一个私有的类，所以你不能直接访问它。然而，你可以通过子视图的层次结构找到它的图片。

可以通过UITableViewCell的子类，重写它的 setEditing：animated：方法 如下：

• (void) setEditing:(BOOL)editing animated:(BOOL)animated
  {
  [super setEditing: editing animated: YES];

  if (editing) {

    for (UIView * view in self.subviews) {
        if ([NSStringFromClass([view class]) rangeOfString: @"Reorder"].location != NSNotFound) {
            for (UIView * subview in view.subviews) {
                if ([subview isKindOfClass: [UIImageView class]]) {
                    ((UIImageView *)subview).image = [UIImage imageNamed: @"yourimage.png"];
                }
            }
        }
    }
  

  }
  }

2.修改UITableViewCell默认的delete按钮的大小

• (void)willTransitionToState:(UITableViewCellStateMask)state {
  [super willTransitionToState:state];

if ((state & UITableViewCellStateShowingDeleteConfirmationMask) == UITableViewCellStateShowingDeleteConfirmationMask) {

for (UIView *subview in self.subviews) {

if ([NSStringFromClass([subview class]) isEqualToString:@"UITableViewCellDeleteConfirmationControl"]) {

subview.hidden = YES;
subview.alpha = 0.0;
}
}
}
}

• (void)didTransitionToState:(UITableViewCellStateMask)state {

[super willTransitionToState:state];

if (state == UITableViewCellStateShowingDeleteConfirmationMask || state == UITableViewCellStateDefaultMask) {
for (UIView *subview in self.subviews) {

if ([NSStringFromClass([subview class]) isEqualToString:@"UITableViewCellDeleteConfirmationControl"]) {

UIView *deleteButtonView = (UIView *)[subview.subviews objectAtIndex:0];
CGRect f = deleteButtonView.frame;
f.origin.x -= 20;
deleteButtonView.frame = f; //这里可以改变delete button的大小

subview.hidden = NO;

[UIView beginAnimations:@"anim" context:nil];
subview.alpha = 1.0;
[UIView commitAnimations];
}
}
}
}