1. 好奇心至上
If you want to build a ship, don't drum up people to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea.
——Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Being curious. Itch to solve a puzzle.
Intrigued by what contradicts to their expectation. a pleasure.
Being open. virtue to test their beliefs.
Being grounded. Self-worth don't tied to how much rights you got or how much knowledge you posesses.
2. Twenty-something很重要
Gain more identity capital ( forget about your identity crisis )
exploration != procrastinastion
new things come in weak ties.
pick your families