人们为什么无法疗愈?

I decided to write this series of articles on “Why people don’t heal how they can” (borrowing a title from a C. Myss book) because I often get asked about alternative therapies and healing in general, and I felt this could help people see some of the different reasons why they can’t move forward.

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A spiritual healing can help you clear and heal the following issues (and many others of course):

我决定写这一系列的文章,题目是《为什么人们无法疗愈,怎样才能》(借用C.Myss的一本书的标题)。因为我经常被问及替代疗法和一般的治疗方法,我觉得这可以帮助人们了解为什么他们不能取得进展的一些不同原因。

灵性治疗可以帮助你清理和疗愈以下问题(当然还有许多其它问题)。

          False Expections: The first reason why people don't heal

错误的期望:人们无法疗愈的第一个原因

A key factor in healing is the awareness of “what” therapies bring about in general.

Let’s assume for a minute that a person gets up every morning and goes to the well to bring water because that’s his job. Now if that person had a “broken” leg, that task gets very difficult day-in and day-out. With a broken leg, a full or sufficiently filled bucket of water might be difficult to bring back home to, especially if we take into consideration elements such as rain, heat etc. After all, some days it rains and some days are very hot.

The SRT and SPR healings can help each person heal their “broken leg” so to speak, so they can once again do their job more comfortably. This healing doesn’t mean that the elements will seize to exist and that perfect weather should be expected for ever more. Nor does it mean that the well will reposition itself near the person’s house so he/she doesn’t have to travel far to get to the water. It also means that the job (of bringing home the water) will still be required and no miracle will happen that makes water available to us without working somehow.

It is important that we understand the nature of therapies in general and not engage in false expectations as to what these healings are all about.  After all, problems never stop, we just become stronger and better at handling them. We can’t expect to build a house “without problems”, how can we expect to have a “life without problems” just because we had a spiritual clearing.

疗愈的一个关键因素,是觉知到治疗在整体上起到的作用是"什么"?

让我们假设一下,有一个人每天早上起床都要去井边打水,因为那是他的工作。现在如果那个人的一条腿断了的话,他的任务就会变得日益艰难。带着一条断腿,要把一满桶水或者装得比较满的一桶水带回家去,可能会比较困难。尤其当我们要考虑诸如下雨或者酷暑这样的因素时,毕竟有些日子会下雨,有些日子天气又很炎热。

SRT 和SPR 会帮助每个人疗愈他们的“断腿”。如此他们就可以再次轻松地工作。但疗愈不意味着那些不利因素不再存在,或者完美的天气应该永远被期待。它也不意味着那口井会把自己重新定位到离家更近的地方,这样他/她就不用走很远的路去打水。它意味着,这个工作(打水回家)还是要做的。不会有什么奇迹发生,让我们不用工作就可以得到水。

重要的是,我们要了解一般治疗的本质。不要对疗愈的意义抱有错误的期待。毕竟问题从来没有停止过,我们只是变得更强大,更善于处理它们。我们不能期望建造一所“没有问题”的房子,又怎么能仅仅因为一次灵性疗愈,就指望过一种“没有问题的生活”。

      Impatience. The 2nd reason why people don’t heal

缺乏耐心:人们无法疗愈的第二个原因

Over the years, it has become quite clear to me that healing, although “spiritual”, should have a way of being measured in a fairly simple way so that everyone can evaluate its process if they wished.

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Out of that awareness, I developed and added to the full clearing session the “Aspects of Life” worksheet, where all the negative energy percentages are noted in all the major areas of each person’s life (rates and points vary from person to person). In this way we can understand and compare where each person is at any given time of their life.

I will make a point of how this came about. There were cases when clients called me 2 months after a healing session and said: “you know I didn’t see much difference after my healing. I mean things improved but I am not well yet.” As I measured their current negative energy fields and compared them to their aspects of life two months before, I found out that within two months, there was a 20% total improvement.

Now, if we asked a businessman how it sounds to have a 20% improvement in his business in just two months, he would probably be very pleased. But people, even though it took them years to arrive at their current state, which is nothing more than consequences to their actions and beliefs, they expect instant or immediate changes.

One of the finest elements of SRT healings in my opinion is its elegance. Changes often come about in a sweet and painless way, although I have seen instant improvements in some cases. This means that as the changes take place, we have the time to contemplate and understand the process of how we got there in the first place and make the appropriate changes to our behavior as the need arises.

多年来,我已经非常清楚地意识到: 疗愈,即使是“灵性”的,也应该有一种相当简单的办法对它进行衡量,以便每个人都可以根据自己的意愿来评估其过程。

出于这个意识,我在全面清理中制定并增加了“生活的主要方面”工作表,用来记录每个人生活中主要领域的所有负面能量百分比(比率和点数因人而异)。通过这种方式,我们可以理解和比较,每个人在他们生活中的任何一个特定时刻所处的位置。

我要说明一下这一切是怎么发生的。有些情况下,客户在个案完成两个月之后,会打电话给我说,“您知道,在我做完疗愈之后,并没有看到太多的改变,我的意思是,情况有所改善,但我现在还是不太好。”  我测量了他们当时的负面能量场,并和两个月前生活各方面的情况作比较时,我发现在两个月内,就有了20%的整体改善。

假如我们问一个商人,如果他的生意可以在短短两个月时间内提升20%,听起来怎么样?他很可能会非常开心。然而尽管人们目前的状况完全是他们多年行动和信念累积的结果,他们却期待着可以发生瞬间、即时的改变。

在我看来,SRT 最好的元素之一,就是它的优雅。变化往往是以一种甜蜜而没有痛苦的方式发生的,尽管在某些情况下我也会看到立竿见影的改变。这意味着随着改变的发生,我们有时间去反思和理解我们一开始是如何到达那里的,然后在需要的时候,对我们的行为进行适当的改变。

Laziness: The 3rd reason why people don’t heal
懒惰:人们无法疗愈的第三个原因

Along with the clearing session that I often describe as “a complete renovation of the old and inherited house we call soul”, it also become apparent to me that the direction of where a person needs to go to improve their life was immensely essential.

I make a point to suggest books or other actions that are considered relevant by High Self for that person’s self-improvement. These directions are important in their way they enhance the healing that took place, by gaining awareness on a conscious level and therefore shift to more appropriate beliefs and habits that will preserve this “soul renovation”. I often find regretfully that people who see smaller improvements in their life are invariably those that chose not to follow the “improvement instructions” indicated by High Self.

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Now, theoretically we know we can’t have different results while doing the same thing over and over again. If a boat sailed from Piraeus on route to Cairo and changed its course by 1-2 degrees, it would not reach the original destination, it will definitely end up somewhere else. Most of the time, minor changes like reading a book, though they might seem insignificant to us, can bring about great changes in the overall course of our healing process (actually books can be decisive at times).

Let us take initiative and do the necessary steps for our self-improvement instead of waiting for the universe to “conspire” on our behalf.

除了做清理个案,也是我常说的“对我们继承来的,被称作‘灵魂’的老房子进行彻底改造”之外,我还清楚地看到,一个人需要往哪个方向前进去改变他们的生活也至关重要。

我很重视推荐高我认为与这个人的自我提升有关的书籍或行为。这些方向很重要。它们通过提升在意识层面的觉知,从而转化到更加适宜的信念和习惯,来维持这种灵魂的更新,从而强化正在发生疗愈。我常常遗憾地发现,那些只看到生活中较小的进步的人,总是选择不遵守高我所指出的“改进指示”。

现在,理论上我们知道,我们不能通过一遍遍做同样的事而得到不同的结果。如果有一艘船从比雷埃夫斯开往开罗,并改变航向1-2度,它就不会到达原来的目的地,而肯定会去到别的地方。很多的时候,像读书这样小的变化,可能看起来无关紧要,但却能给我们整体的疗愈过程带来巨大的改变(实际上,书有时是决定性的)。

让我们采取主动,为我们的自我完善采取必要的步骤,而不是等待宇宙为我们”合谋“。

作者 : Xenia, 希腊雅典  SRA协会认证SRT和SPR老师, GrecoDow系统创始人

翻译: Stella Chang

转自公号: 灵魂加油站

原文地址:

https://www.srt.gr/en/articles/healing/heal_1/

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