When you take your energy and your attention off of what you are demanding from the world, and instead saying what can I give to the world, and it's really the basis behind that very famous line of the, uh, President John Kennedy's inaugural address.
当你不再去关注自己想从这个世界得到的东西，而是对世界说，我能给你点什么？就像肯尼迪在就职演说上讲的那句很有名的话。
Ask not what your country can do; ask what you can do for your country.
不要问你的国家能为你做什么，而要问你能为你的国家做什么。
And the irony of that is and I've learned that in my own life that when I stopped thinking about what was in it for Wayne Dyer, and how much could I get, and I began to shift and say, how can I help you? How can I give to you? What can I do for you?
从人生经历中，我学到这样的道理，也挺讽刺的，那就是，当我停止思考有什么东西是为了我而准备的，停止思考我能得到多少，并开始转变心态，变成我怎样才能帮助你？我怎样才能给你点什么？我能为你做些什么？
And people who write to me, I send them something, when, when I encounter somebody that needs help of some kind, I'm very often just giving that to them, and then I find that it just keeps coming back into my life.
人们给我写信，我给他们寄一些东西。当我遇到有人需要某种帮助，我就给予他们这样的帮助。然后，我发现，我付出的东西，正在不断地回来。
And once I shifted that energy off of what can I have, into, what can I give, it seemed to me that the universe responded back with the very same message, what can I give to you?
一旦我转变观念，不再纠结我能拥有什么，而是想，我能给予什么，好像世界也向我发送一模一样的信息，世界在问我，我能给予你什么？
And the most incredible and wonderful and beautiful abundance has flowed into my life in every way.
最难以置信、最棒、最美好的富足，以各种各样的方式，来到我的生命中。
You can't give away what you don't have.
你自己没有的，你也无法给予。
