每个人都有自己长期以来形成的生活习惯。
乞丐有乞丐的习惯，皇帝有皇帝的习惯，换一种生活可能谁都不觉得舒适自在。
虽然说由俭入奢易，由奢入俭难。
但我们面临的实际生活总难摆脱各种环境约束，而绝对的俭或奢。
每种生活都有其不易与安适，而选择往往并非都出于主观的决定，更多是因为各种机缘和境遇将我们推向了一个个不得已的路口。
而不同的生活习惯便也在不同的生活环境中养成了。

比如有些人习惯与父母生活在一起，有些人却习惯了独自生活。
或许他们偶尔也想改变，想要过另一种不同的生活。
但当真的给了他另一种生活，让他从原来的各种熟悉与舒适中脱离出来时，他又必将是痛苦和不情愿的。
而大多数时候，他又会自觉不自觉地返回到原来的环境和状态中去。

其实，并没有什么环境或状态是绝对的好或不好。
好，很多时候只是想象出来的，适不适应才是关键，而适应往往又不是主观努力的结果。
那是时间积累的结果，是不同机缘与不同境遇合力铸就的结果。

所以，不要抗争、不要埋怨，顺势而为，找一条自己愿意走的路，过一种自己觉得舒适的生活就好。
如果自己不愿意、不舒适，那就没有什么愿意与舒适。
一个不愿意、不舒适的心放在哪里，对哪里都是一种伤害。
所以对自己负责，其实也是对他人负责。

Everyone has their own long-term habits of life.
Beggars have the habit of beggars, emperors have the habits of emperors, and no one may feel comfortable in a different life.
Although it is said that it is easy to enter into luxury through thrift, and it is difficult to enter into thrift through luxury.

But the real life we face is always difficult to get rid of all kinds of environmental constraints, and absolute frugality or extravagance.
Every kind of life has its own difficulties and comfort, and the choice is often not out of subjective decisions, more because of a variety of opportunities and circumstances that push us to the crossroads we have to.
And different living habits will also be developed in different living environments.

For example, some people are used to living with their parents, while others are used to living alone.
Maybe they want to change occasionally and want to live a different life.
But when really gave him another kind of life, let him out of the original variety of familiarity and comfort, he will be painful and reluctant.
And most of the time, he will consciously or unconsciously return to the original environment and state.

In fact, there is no environment or state that is absolutely good or bad.
Perfect, many times it is only imagined, whether adaptation is the key, and adaptation is often not the result of subjective efforts.
That is the result of the accumulation of time, the result of the joint efforts of different opportunities and different circumstances.

So, don't fight, don't complain, follow the trend, find a path you're willing to take, and live a life you feel comfortable with.
If you are unwilling and uncomfortable, then nothing is willing and comfortable.
Where an unwilling, uncomfortable heart is placed is a kind of harm to everyone.
Therefore, being responsible for yourself is actually responsible for others.