《Dear Calgary》 是一本书,SAIT在2016年毕业典礼上将它作为礼物赠送给毕业生。这本书收集了69封信,信的内容是加拿大卡尔加里在商业、科研、教育、文艺和体育等领域作出杰出贡献的企业家对年轻人关于领导力的经验分享和人生寄语。
这本书刚开始并没有受到我的青睐。书信的合成本而已,甚至不是一本严格意义上的书。它有时候被我从书架扔到沙发上,又从沙发挪到书桌上。它就那样悄无声息地躲在角落里,被我冷落了足足有半年。后来当我翻看了两封信,发现里面的话充满智慧,很启发人,有些言语令人警醒,不由得心生敬意,危襟正坐,索性一口气将书读完。
仿佛一位位亲切和蔼的老朋友向你娓娓道来,温和,睿智,优雅。信的写作者或者一直生长在卡城,或者从其他城市移居到卡城。他们热爱这个城市,在这里生活、创业、失败、成功。他们对所从事的事业富有激情,对居住的社区及身边的朋友富有爱心。身为不同领域的精英,他们积累了丰富的管理经验,取得了耀眼的成绩,是本行业优秀的典范。在这里,他们真诚地将自己的宝贵经验语重心长地分享给未来的年轻人,后继者。
下面是我从书中摘选的喜欢的话,关于领导力,关于为人处事,关于爱和梦想。我觉得这些话充满哲理和启示,能鼓励我更好做人和做事。
Management by walking around: work with people; people didn't work for you.Listening to people and responding thoughtfully and with respect. Trust but verify. Delegate a lot of responsibility but verify the results. -----David Bissett
Invest in this city,give your time and your energy to this city, and you will get it all back in spades. -----George Brookman
Calgary is now a big city, but is still remains a small town feel, with small town values, centred on the concern for others and personal accountability for making the city better. -----Susan Brown
The idea that one company's purpose is to crush its competitor is over. There is a new wave of business coming-the collaborative or shared economy. -----Jim Button
Trusting yourself gives you the confidence to push your limits. Once you gain confidence in yourself, you have the freedom to dream big. -------Arlene Dickinson
People always believe the grass is always greener down the road. But actually the "Acres of Diamonds" is right here in Calgary. ----Greg Habstritt
There is a lot more to success than how much money you make and what your title is. My benchmarks of success are family, friends,finances, career, health, support systems in the community and reputation. All these things have to be kept in balance. -----Richard Haskayne
Responses, decisions and judgements are quick and often shallow. I want to see the introspection and thoughtfulness, about ourselves and each other,in our interactions and in our decision making. ----Linda Hohol
A winner is simply a loser who never, never, never quits. Can our purpose in life be summed up by two simple words: love always? ----Sam Kollas
'Culture eats strategy for breakfast'. You have no way of achieving your strategy unless all your people adhere to your core values. -------Chris Lee
Talent, genius and education are all powerful attributes, but the real power lies in determination and persistence. Only do thins you are good at. do things you love.Shine your shoes and be on time. Everything else will work out. Shining your shoes speaks to preparing and believing in yourself. Being on time is about respecting other people. Following this can get you through an awful lot of things in life. ------Dave Mowat
Treat people as you would like to be treated. When in doubt, always so the right thing; don't just do things right. Don't procrastinate on making decisions. You will never have all the facts.--Alan Norris
Leadership is not a right or a privilege, it is character- character revealed and tempered by the challenges of both opportunity and adversity.----Karen Radford
One key trait of all good leaders is they believe in themselves and in the people around them. Often it is your own hurdle that is the greatest challenge.---- Scott Saxberg
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.---Shauna Curry
Leadership is like surfing. You don't create energy; you just harvest energy already out there.
Entrepreneurial spirit is a can-do attitude.----Sharon Carry
The single greatest enemy of great is good.----Dr. Kabir Jivraj
It is a blessing and a privilege to uplift people.---Roberto Minczuk
Deep down inside, know that it is not about recognition, but rather about the freedom of knowing you are truly making a difference to someone. -----Michael Nobel
Follow your passion, work hard and have fun.The secret to success is to surround yourself with people smarter than you.Be part of many circles. Accept invitations. Say yes. ----Patti Pon
I believe it is one of the best places on earth to pursue your dreams. It just has so much heart. Surround yourself with people who are like-minded and who share your values and your dream.All you can do is your best at the time. Sometimes your decision won't work out the way you hoped, but sometimes they will work out better---Paul Rogalski
Keep the good deeds quiet.Give back quietly.----Cassie campbell-Pascall
You can not be an obstacle because,if you are, then your industry is going to disappear. ---Eric Duhatschek
Servant leadership is about removing the impediments that stand in the way of others accomplishing their goals, to find out what is really important to others.-- Ken King
Live boldly.----Brittney Ramsay
When you hit a wrong note, it is the next note that makes it good or bad.--Miles Davis
If you are not growing, you are not living.---Jim Dinning
Discover your gift,and then discover how you can use them to make your life and your living. --Eva Friesen
Is is rare that Plan A turns out exactly how it is supposed to. Staying true to your own needs will help you better meet the needs of others and will see you through the many challenges that are to come. ---- Sue Henry
Don't want to be asked. Don't wait for some unspecified"better time". Don't wait for someone else to do it.---Mayor Naheed Nensh
Work for yourself and have others work for you. Family always comes first. ---Mike Shaikh
No one is good enough to govern another man without the other's consent.--Abraham Lincoln
透过这些充满正能量的话语,我看到了卡尔加里人对这片土地的热爱,对梦想的追求和人生的思考,也更加理解加拿大人怎样奉行自己的价值观,如何传承本地文化和传统;我也想起,我长大的城市并没有这样的书信留给后来者,我想起那些趾高气扬的“领导”,想起那些没有任何意义的官场套话,想起身边那些追名逐利或者随波逐流的人.......。在这本书里,这些可爱可敬的人告诉我们,领导力不是当老板,做对的事比做对事更重要,听从自己的内心,梦想大一些,给予比索取更快乐,坚持就是胜利,相信自己也相信团队......。书里说,“这些是智慧的珍珠”,我觉得也是。