好多朋友问我是否帮助了那位女儿找工作的阿姨，很遗憾的说，我没有也帮助不了。在中国，第一大特点就是人多什么人都多，毕业生更多，但是企业的经营，尤其是私营企业在中国的市场中越来越难，因此就是僧多粥少，况且没有很高的学历，在人才市场上的竞争力是很弱的。所以我真的也很难帮她。
Many of you my friends asked me if I can help that ayi's daughter, unfortunately no, I can't, there is nothing I can do. In here this country, the first and feather is POPULATION. All kinds of people too much, even the graduates, but for all the companies, especially for the private-owned it's getting more difficult for those companies in today's market. So the positions are not enough for those who graduates. Plus she doesn't have good education certificate so it is really low-competitive of her in the talent resources market. So there is not too much I can help her.
另一位阿姨是跟我比较熟悉的阿姨，这是年龄比较大的阿姨，从南方四川来的，今年48岁，我问她为什么来北京工作，为什么不在家里呢。原来，她有两个孩子，大女儿已经结婚了，26岁，嫁到了四川的一个村子里，儿子现在正在上大学，大三，每年的支出差不多一万五千块，再加上给儿子买房的钱需要攒出来，这么一大笔费用，要怎么去存呢？只有选择出来打工了。
我问她的丈夫在做什么工作呢，她看起来很羞愧，摇了摇头告诉我，他没有工作，只是不难的时候打一些零工，然后把钱都放到赌博里面去，赌输了有的时候还跟我和我女儿要钱。他不但不给家里钱，还经常说我们不信任他，太离谱了。
Another ayi is the one I am familiar to, she is a little older and comes from the south of China , Sichuan province, 48 years old, I asked her that why she chose to come to Beijing instead of just staying at home at her age, she said, that she has two children, the older one is a daughter already got married is a village of Sichuan province, and another one is a son who is still studying in the third year of university, every year the boy needs 15,000 expense and she is still saving for buying his son a house back to her hometown, that much money how can she just stay in her hometown, so that's why she is working in Beijing right now. When I asked what's her husband does for living, she looks like really shameful and sighed for a long time, shaking her head and said: that my husband doesn't have a stable work to do, just stays at home and does some part-time job, if he earns some money he would put all the money into gamble, and sometimes even ask me and my daughter for money to do the gamble, never offer the money he earns, and always complaints that we don't trust him and complaints we don't give him money, how can we trust him?That money is for our son to study and get married, that's ridiculous.
我非常吃惊她竟然支撑起了整个家庭，其实在中国，很多男性宁愿在家带着也不愿意去做一些不体面的工作，即使妻子再苦再累，他们都觉得给别人打工太丢面子了，久而久之也就不愿意出去和社会上接触了，恶性循环，更加没有经济来源。
I was so shocked that she support the whole family by herself. Actually what I want to say is that in China there are so many men they would prefer even stay at home rather than going to outside work in a indecency job, even their wife doing it they would think that kind of job is too shameful for them and once they get used to staying at home and have nothing to do no money to earn, they would feel more sank that's called vicious spiral.
不论如何，说回这个阿姨，她人很好，每天中午都从家带昨晚做的饭，每次都是西红柿炒鸡蛋和炒青菜，加米饭或者馒头。有的时候我会给她一些蔬菜和喝的东西，其实她也没有什么能给我的，只不过是每次等她晚班的时候都会等我下班，跟我聊聊天，或者偷偷给我拿一些零食或者好喝的东西从公司，还会跟我说一些公司里面的八卦。我也会跟她分享生活中遇到的一些开心和不开心的事情。她很睿智，一般她都会像长者一样，给我一些很好的建议，我从来都不把她当作一个保洁阿姨看待，她是我的同事，也是我的朋友！
Anyway talk back to the ayi. She is really nice person, always takes food from her cooking last night, and sometimes when I see her eating, I would give her some vegetables and drinks to eat, because every time she eat the same food, tomatoes with eggs and some green leaf food and the rice or mantou. She has nothing to give back to me, so as a return, she would always stay with me when it is her turn to do the late time work, and never make me hurry up always take some good drinks and snacks secretly from my company has to me. And sometimes gossips with me, I would share my happiness and sadness with her every time, she is really wise as a senor, always give me really good advises. I really don't see her as a cleaning ayi. She is just a college or a old friend for me!
