I watched the old video of TED today. I love the content and speaker and decided to imitate it. Now I am writing it down.
The human voice, it is the instrument we all play. It is the most powerful sound in the world, probably. It is the only that start a war or say "I love you" and yet many people have the experience that when they speak. People don’t listen to them, and why is that? How can we speak powerfully to change the world. What is I would like to suggest. There are a number of habits that we need to move away from. I‘ve assembled for your pleasure here. seven deadly sins of speaking.I'm not pretending this is an exhaustive list, but these seven,think, pretty large habits that we can all fall into.
First, gossip. Speaking ill of somebody who’s not present, not a nice a habit, and we know perfectly. The person gossiping five minutes later, will be gossiping about us.
Second, judging. We know people who are like this in conversation. And it is very hard to listen to somebody.If you know that you are being judged, and founding wanting at the same time.