没有时间去思考

No Time to Think

1  One of the biggest complaints in modern society is being overscheduled, overcommitted and overextended.over+,过度什么Ask people at a social gathering how they are and the stock answer is “super busy,” “crazy busy” or “insanely busy.” Nobody is just “fine” anymore.

2  Whenpeople aren’t super busy at work, theyare crazy busy exercising,be busy doing忙于做某事entertaining or taking their kids to Chinese lessons. Or maybe they are insanely busy playing fantasy football, tracing their genealogy or churning their own butter.

3  And if there is ever a still moment forreflective thought(深思熟虑)— say, whilewaiting in line(排队)at the grocery store orsitting in traffic(堵车)— out comes the mobile device. So it’s worth noting a study published last month in the journal Science, which shows how far people will go to avoid introspection.

4“We hadnoted(宾语从句)how wedded to our devices we all seem to be and that people seem to find any excuse they can to keep busy,” said Timothy Wilson, a psychology professor at the University of Virginia and lead author of the study. “No one had done a simple study letting people go off on their own and think.”

5The results surprised him and have created a stir in the psychology and neuroscience communities. In 11 experiments involving more than 700 people, the majority ofparticipants(参与者)reported that they found it unpleasant to be alone in a room with their thoughts for just 6 to 15 minutes.

6Moreover, in one experiment, 64 percent of men and 15 percent of women began self-administering electric shocks when left alone to think. These same people, by the way, hadpreviously(之前的)said they would pay money to avoid receiving the painful jolt.

7It didn’t matter if the subjects engaged in thecontemplative(冥想)exercise at home or in the laboratory, or if they were given suggestions of what to think about, like a coming vacation; they just didn’t like being in their own heads.

8It could be because human beings, when left alone, tend to dwell on what’s wrong in their lives.We have evolved to become problem solvers and meaning makers.What preys on our minds, when we aren’t updating our Facebook page or in spinning class, are the things we haven’tfigured out(想出办法解决)— difficult relationships, personal and professional failures, money trouble, health concerns and so on. And until there is resolution, or at least some kind of understanding or acceptance, these thoughtsreverberate(回荡)in our heads. Hellorumination.(苦苦思索)Helloinsomnia.(失眠)

9,10段是栗子

9“One explanation why people keep themselves so busy and would rather shock themselves is that they are trying to avoid that kind of negative stuff,” said Ethan Kross, director of the Emotion and Self-Control Laboratory at the University of Michigan. “It doesn’t feel good if you’re notintrinsicallygood at reflecting.”

10The comedian Louis C.K. has a riff that’s been watched nearly eight million times on YouTube in which he describes that not-good feeling. “Sometimes when things clear away and you’re not watching anything and you’re in your car and you start going, oh no, here it comes, that I’m alone, and it starts to visit on you, just this sadness,” he said. “And that’s why we text and drive. People are willing to risk taking a life and ruining their own because they don’t want to be alone for a second because it’s so hard.”

11But you can’t solve or let go of problems if you don’t allow yourself time to think about them.It’s animperative(至关重要的事)/ignoredby our culture, whichwhich引导非限定性定语从句values doing/more than thinking and believes answers/are in the palm of your hand rather/than in your own head.

12“It’s like we’re all in this addicted family where all this busyness seems normal when it’s really harmful,” said Stephanie Brown, a psychologist in Silicon Valley and the author of “Speed: Facing Our Addiction to Fast and Faster — and Overcoming Our Fear of Slowing Down.” “There’s this widespread belief that thinking and feeling will only slow you down and get in your way, but it’s the opposite.”

13-16段,那几点原因

13Suppressing(压制)negative feelings only gives them more power, she said, leading tointrusive(强压的,闯进来的)thoughts, which makes people get even busier to keep themat bay(走投无路,同cornered. The constant cognitivestrain(负担,压力)of evading emotionsunderlies(造成,导致)/a range of psychologicaltroubles/such asobsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, depression and panicattacks,(各种症状,强迫症,焦虑症,抑郁症,惊恐发作)not to mention a range of addictions. It is also associated with various somatic problems like eczema, irritable bowel syndrome, asthma, inflammation, impaired immunity and headaches.

14Studies further suggest that not giving yourself time to reflectimpairs(损失,损害)your ability to empathizewithothers. “The more in touch with my own feelings and experiences, the richer and more accurate are my guesses of what passes through another person’s mind,” said Giancarlo Dimaggio, a psychiatrist with the Center for Metacognitive Interpersonal Therapy in Rome, who studies the interplay of self-reflection and empathy. “Feeling what you feel is an ability that atrophies if you don’t use it.”(没时间反思没有同理心)

15Researchers have also found that an idle mind is a crucible of creativity. A number of studies have shown that people tend to come up with more novel uses for objects if they are first given an easy task that allows their minds to wander, rather than a more demanding one.

16“Idle mental processing encourages creativity and solutions because imagining your problem when you aren’t in it is not the same as reality,” said Jonathan Smallwood, a cognitive neuroscientist at the University of York, in England. “Using your imagination means you are in fact rethinking the problem in a novel way.”

17Perhaps that’s why Google offers its employees courses called “Search Inside Yourself” and “Neural Self-Hacking,” which include instruction on mindfulness meditation, where the goal is to recognize and accept inner thoughts and feelings rather than ignore or repress them. It’s in the company’s interest because it frees up employees’ otherwise embattled brain space to intuit end users’ desires and create products to satisfy them.

18“I have a lot of people who come in and want to learn meditation to shut out thoughts that come up in those quiet moments,” said Sarah Griesemer, a psychologist in Austin, Tex., who incorporates mindfulness meditation into her practice. “But allowing and tolerating the drifting in of thoughts is part of the process.” Her patients, mostly hard-charging professionals, report being more productive at work and more energetic and engaged parents.

19To get rid of the emotional static, experts advise not using first-person pronouns when thinking about troubling events in your life. Instead, use third-person pronouns or your own name when thinking about yourself. “If a friend comes to you with a problem it’s easy to coach them through it, but if the problem is happening to us we have real difficulty, in part because we have all these egocentric biases making it hard to reasonrationally(理性),” said Dr. Kross of Michigan. “The data clearly shows that you can use language to almost trick yourself into thinking your problems are happening to someone else.”

20段总结

20Hard as they sometimes are, negative feelings are a part of everyone’s life, arguably more so if you are crazy busy. Butit’sthose same deep and troubling feelings, and how you deal with them,thatmake you the person you are. Whilebusynessmaystanch(止住什么的流出)welling sadness, it may also limit your ability to be overcome with joy.(it’s A,that B)

本文要点:

“没时间去想”,文章就从“是什么/为什么/怎么办”去考虑,文章重点在讲“为什么”。

开始说“没时间去想”是什么,它是一个是那么样的表象呢?忙!

然后就开始跟你长篇大论解释为什么会忙,为什么没时间去想,通过做实验/听专家们分析得出来了结论,三点原因:1.一想就想烦心事儿(negative thoughts)。2.人们觉得做比想重要。3.忙是当今时代主流,这个时代追求的就是快。

到底要不要想?要!

为什么呢?原因如下:1.你不去想,就相当于说你去suppress negative thoughts,你一抑制不要紧,身心受损。2.没时间反思的人是没有同理心的。3.漫想是创造力的源泉。4.漫想真的可以帮你解决问题哦(举例google course和Sarah治病)。

好,我终于明白了,一定要take time to think,那怎么去think呢?哦,作者告诉你了,要跳出来(用第三人称)去think。

总结一下吧:不爽/问题/麻烦事儿(才)是我们一生的忠实伴侣,你忙(没时间),确实不会去想(烦)了,但与此同时,你所能真正感受到的快乐也大打折扣。

重要词汇:

1.Stock:repeated too often; overfamiliar through overuse. A STOCK ANSWER

2.Genealogy:家谱

3.Churn:搅拌

4.Reflective:深思的

5.How far:多么的….

6.Introspection: 自省

7.Wed:结婚

8.Psychology: 心理学

9.Create a stir:造成了a lot of interest or excitement.

10.Neuroscience:神经系统科学

11.Participant:参与者

12.Previous:之前

13.Jolt:震惊

14.Contemplative:冥想的

15.Dwell on:to think a lot about sth

16.Prey on one’s mind:to make sb think or worry about sth all the time

17.Reverberate: 回荡

18.Intrinsically:本质上的

19.Reflect:思考,反射

20.Riff: 即兴表演

21.Imperative:至关重要的事儿

22.Get in one’s way: 挡住某人的路

23.Suppress:抑制

24.Intrusive:入侵的

25.Be at bay:走投无路 cornered

26.Underlie:造成

27.Not to mention: 更不必说(表强调)

28.Impair:损害

29.Empathize with sb:同情某人

30.Atrophy:削减(能力)

31.Idle:漫无目的的,慵懒的

32.Novel:新颖的/原创的

33.Neural:神经的/神经系统的

34.Repress:抑制

35.Embattle:部署(军队)以作战

36.Intuit:从直觉知道

37.Incorporate:包含/吸收

38.Hard-charging:very aggressive, determined, or ambitious

39.Productive:高效的

40.Get rid of sth:除去

41.In part:to some extend; partly

42.Egocentric: 以自我为中心的

43.Bias:偏见,偏爱

44.Rationally:理性地

45.Stanch:止住…流出

46.Welling: 涌出的

47.Be overcome with joy: 极度喜悦

认知词汇

1.Spinning class:动感单车

2.Rumination:沉思

3.Insomnia:失眠

4.Cognitive:认知的

5.Obsessive-compulsive disorder:强迫症

6.Anxiety:焦虑

7.Depression:抑郁

8.Panic attack:恐惧症

9.Somatic: 躯体的

10.Eczema:湿疹

11.Irritable bowel syndrome:肠易激综合症

12.Asthma:哮喘

13.Inflammation:炎症

14.Impaired immunity:免疫功能损伤

15.Crucible:熔炉,严酷的考验

16.Mindfulness:心智觉知

17.Static:静态的,不动的

18.Arguably:可以说,可论证的

长难句

We had noted how wedded to our devices we all seem to be and that people seem to find any excuse they can to keep busy.

我们可以发现人们是多么的粘自己的手机,而且会极尽所能想出来各种理由让自己忙起来。

Note后面跟着两个并列的宾语从句,而第二个宾语从句要有that的出现来引导, 原来的陈述句是:we all seem to be (how wedded) to our devices

And until there is resolution, or at least some kind of understanding or acceptance, these thoughts reverberate in our heads.

而且,我们(如果是)找不到解决办法或者想不通这些闹心的事儿的话,这些问题就会一直回荡在我们脑海里。

Reverberate = won’t disappear or fade away

Suppressing negative feelings only gives them more power, she said, leading to intrusive thoughts, which makes people get even busier to keep them at bay.

她还说,“你刻意的去抑制负面的情绪只能让它滋生出更大的影响,带来更多的想法,而这些随之而来的想法会让你变得更忙,忙到不可开交忙到走投无路。”

She said是插入语,leading(非谓语动词)引导的一个伴随(表目的)状语, intrusive thoughts强加过来的思绪,which引导非限定性定语从句,这些强加过来的思绪会让他们更忙,忙到走投无路。

The constant cognitive strain of evading emotions underlies a range of psychological troubles such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, depression and panic attacks, not to mention a range of addictions.

逃避情绪所带来的不断的认知性的负担正是造成一系列心理问题的根源,譬如说,强迫症/焦虑/抑郁以及恐惧症,更别说一系列的瘾性疾病。

主句谓语是underlie——导致/造成,也就是A会造成B,A的核心词是strain——负担压力,B的核心词是troubles。进一步分析,在A里面,什么样的负担压力呢?注意,of这个单词给人的感觉呢是一种所属或者源于的感觉(used to show possession, belonging, or origin),那在这儿我们就把strain理解为源于evading emotions了,也就是说evading emotions导致的/带来的strain。B就很简单了,一系列的心理问题,such as比如说而最后的not to mention表示地强调啊。成瘾性的症状就更容易导致了。

Hard as they sometimes are, negative feelings are a part of everyone’s life, arguably more so if you are crazy busy. But it’s those same deep and troubling feelings, and how you deal with them, that make you the person you are. While busyness may stanch welling sadness, it may also limit your ability to be overcome with joy.

负面情绪作为我们每个人生活中的一部分啊,有时候确实挺麻烦,尤其是我们超级忙的时候,更是如此。但正是这些幽深的烦人的感觉,以及我们如何去处理它造就我们。当忙碌止住了满意出的悲伤时,它也同样限制了我们被喜悦充盈的能力。

Hard引导的让步状语,尽管怎么样,坏情绪就是一生伴随,甩不掉的。It is A that B,这是一个句型,是A(做了)B这事儿,表强调。While可以理解为伴随状语。

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