很多时候我们都会说爱,但有时候大家对爱有一定的误读。比如我把我认为好的硬要给你,我不认为这叫爱,那可能是某一种关心,这个关心里一定包含某些控制。我觉得真正的爱是你理解他接受他之后,给他他想要的东西,那个是一种成全,那才是爱。
Most of the time we say love, but sometimes we have some misunderstanding of love. For example, I have insisted that I think is good for you, I do not think this is love, that may is a kind of care, the care must contain some control. I think that true love is when you understand what he wants to do, and give what he wants, and help him achieve the aim. That is love.