The first article 'To the future you' origins from this speech. Now I paste it on the place.
GN. my fellow toastmasters and friends, do you remember a special meeting a year ago? Do you know what happened following and the exciting news? Oh, my god, you’ve already known, because Yuki had told you in her speech. So many speeches I had lost, why? Take it easy, you may know following. Yuki was pregnant, this unexpected and exciting news made me near to tears, but this also made me nervous. I didn’t know how to be a good husband, even how to be a good father. How time flies, now my baby is going to be born, although I still don’t know what is a good father, because I have been thinking about it, I’ve already known what I should say to my honey.
Dear, my little baby. I will not say how romantic about the story between I and your mom. The first thing I want to say is the story before we met each other. Honestly, before your mother, I had two love experiences, one was with my classmates without parents’ support, and another was with a girl pursing a PhD. Degree overseas. (haha) Mention that, your mother always said I was absolute a master in chasing girls, because the master always said he had two or three love experiences like this. (he he…) I felt so awkward. How pathetic, I had just been abandoned twice. My sweetie, do you think I am unlucky? The answer is absolutely “no”. Why? Don’t be surprised, please continue reading.
After two despair love experience, thanks to your mom’s love belief that chasing a handsome boy, besides, the courage from your mom. she always was a girl loving smile and loving photograph, and it brought me with much happiness. So that is the first reason I am lucky. The more important reason is hard to you, please try to understand. These two failed love experiences totally last almost ten years, it made me guilty more than despair. Although I always said I had done my best, most time I had not taken any effective action, this weaken the love feeling and even made to broke up. Fortunately, I had already known this key to love. But that was not enough, when I encountered your mother I was 32years old, I didn’t have any foundation to build a happy family. No enough money and health, unable to cook, and the fledging career etc., all these made to me much more pressure. Despite I was lucky, because of not only your magnanimous mom but also the support from your grandparents, of course, I was trying my best also. Now, we had a small but sweet family, and during the process of taking care of your mom before your birth, I had learnt cooking a delicious food, meanwhile I did my best to my students and my work. Oh, my honey, there is still a pity, dad is 34 years old, so I don’t want you encountering your Mr. right so late.
Therefore, my little baby, please be careful, I will say the most important thing. I remembered that I had joked to your uncle Jonathan that I would give a speech about how to catch a girl’s heart, because of your mom’s saying. I didn’t give this speech for its immature idea. But during the process of accompanying your mother, I get a mature idea that is chasing family is more important. During this process, you may know what are essential in a happy family and how to catch these, finally, you could love you love, and get love from you love. My little baby, you are going to be born, even I still don’t know what’s a good father, husband and son, I will make more efforts to take my responsibility to build a happy family and cherish everything we have. My little baby, chasing love, you may lose these important things, please try your best with me to learn to be generous, patient, responsible and independent minded, chasing family will help you get your own happy life in the future.
