遇到一个点亮自己的人何其有幸
能做一个点亮别人的人何其难得
What people see in you, and what you see in others?
2019 – Tactical Talks https://tacticaltalks.com/
【2014 头马冠军演讲-I see something-哔哩哔哩】 https://b23.tv/cNs4bxZ
Word Count: 878 Speech Length: 7:17
•Humor[H]-x22
•Foundational Phrase [FP] - x 4
•“Ladies and Gentlemen” or “My Friends” [MF] - x 5
•Physical Descriptions or VAKS [PD] - x 6
•Callbacks [CB] - x 9
•Rule of Three[R3]-x7
•Questions [Q] - x 2
•Time Transitions [TT] - x 2
•Stories [ST] - x 5
•Vocal Variety [VV]
The highlighted parts are those I might mispronouce.
Speech Transcript:
You and I are not very different from this flower. Just like this flower is unique, you are unique.
All of us have something special that makes us as beautiful. Do you know what makes you special?
Now the answer to that can be a little difficult to find because sometimes, life has a cruel way of picking out your pedals, breaking you in two and throwing you into the trash. [VV]
And when you’re broken, it’s very difficult to feel special. Mr. Contest Chair, my fellow flowers. [H] [VV]
I can remember the first time I broke. I was 17 years old. I had already flunked high school and managed to get myself arrested.
Now, I wasn’t afraid of the cops. But there was one person I was very afraid of and that was my momma. [H]
Raise your hand if you have an emotional mother...let me see. [H][VV]
Put them all together...you get my momma. [H] I could hear her scream outside the police station, even the cops were afraid. [H] [VV]
She came up to me...held the iron bars. Looked into my eyes. And I saw a tear coming down her face. [VV]
Now I’ve seen my momma cry before. But mothers cry 3 types of tears. Tears of joy. Tears of sorrow. And Tears of Shame. [VV]
And when a son sees a mother cry tears of shame, that’s a life changing moment.
She looked at me and said, “son, I want you to be a better man!” [ST] [VV]
That night when I drove home, my dad was waiting for me at home. Now my dad is a cool dad.
Raise your hand if you have a cool dad. [H] Put them all together you get my dad. [H][CB][VV] My dad came up to me and said “son, it’s okay. You flunked your exams, you already got arrested, that’s fine, you get that from your mother’s side. [H][VV]
I want you to start working immediately.” And I said “Okay.” So, my dad took me to meet one of his friends called Sam. [ST]
Now Sam was an accountant who had an accounting firm and had generously decided to make me his personal assistant.
And there he was. He looked like a teddy bear. [H] But this man was special. I looked at him and he looked at me, and then he said the most amazing thing. [VV]
He said, “Son, I see something in you, but I don’t know what it is. [H] If you decide to work with me, I can help you find that something. [VV]
And I was like “WHOA, that’s the first time in my whole life somebody has ever told me he sees something in me.” [VV]
And I started working for Sam. And every day after work he used to tell me stories about the world, about history about culture about philosophy. And it was much more interesting than what I learned in school. [VV]
And I discovered I can dream. And I started dreaming ladies and gentlemen. After one year I went back into high school, completed my exams and went into college.[VV]
After successfully completing college I found a great girl. But not a job. [H][ST] [VV]
I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life, have you ever had that problem? And when you’re lost, it’s difficult to feel special. So, I went back to my cool dad and I said. “Dad, I feel lost,” he said, “you are like your mother.” [H] [CB] [VV]
So my dad introduced me to this strange club that had a strange name, with strange people,[H] talking. [H] On the first meeting they told me to do something called a Table Topic. [H] I aced it! [VV]
But while I was speaking, I saw a strange man seated in the back row, humble, simple, the unfailing quality of kindness in his eyes. [VV]
As soon as I finished, he walked up to me looked at me dead straight in the eye and said, “Son, I see something in you, but I DON’T KNOW what it is! [H] [VV]
If you come here twice a month maybe we can find that something.” [H][CB] [ST] [VV]
And ladies and gentlemen I discovered I could speak, and I love speaking. And that led me to become a teacher. [VV]
I know what it’s like to not have enough money in your bank account. I know what it’s like to worry when the bills start coming in. [VV]
And sometimes, in the middle of the night I wake up my beautiful wife and I ask her, “honey, why did you marry me?” [H] She says, “I saw something in you.[H] But I still don’t know what it is.”[H] [ST] [VV]
Ladies and gentlemen today I’m a dreamer, I’m a speaker, and I learned the unfailing quality of unconditional love from my wife. [VV]
I was broken, and I’ve been broken, lost, and broke many times in my life. But the people in my life were able to reach into the trash can and make me whole again. [CB]
If it was up to me, I would have never been able to do that.
And this is why, if you have great people in your life, no matter how broke, how lost or how broken you’ve become, they can piece you back again. [CB] [VV]
Ladies and gentlemen, when I look at you, I see something in you, [H] but I don’t know what it is. Over to you. [H][VV]
