Yesterday,I got off work early and made a phone call to my another friend to chitchat,I talked about my annoyances with her,she told me,she also had the same problem.Do you have the same feeling that if you encounter difficulties,as long as you realize that you are not lonely in this world,you will feel better?Gender discrimnation is common in multi-child families in rural area.As for me,my mom likes to live with me to aviod spending her son's money,after my father passed away,due to my elder brother studying in Beijing,I took my mom to Qingdao to live with me,untill now ,there had been 8 years.This Saturday,my mom will go to Beijing to live with her son for a while.After my mom go to Beijing,the biggest change for my family is becoming quiet.My mom likes singing,dancing,talking with loud voice,and walking with a pair of big rainshoes here and there which makes loud noises.My mom likes complaining for trifles for a long time and dwelling them over and over,she likes speaking ill of others which makes me annoyed,then,I quarrel with her,at last,I will be the person hurt most.In the fact,I really want to have quiet time and quiet room to relax and do my own business in my spare time.After one day work,I have been exhausted when I go home.I don't like to quarrel with anyone.I just want to have a rest,then go to kitchen to prepare supper.When my mom talks with loud voice or complains something,I feel there are ten thousands of mouths in the house.My mom likes eating leftovers,I cook fresh vegetables and wash fresh fruits to her,she doesn't eat at once,but reserves them in frigde,when we find them spoiled and plan to throw away.My mom doesn't agree and grabs them to eat at once.I prefer to give money to her rather than buy food to her.Before my mom goes to Beijing,she said she was afraid of destroying his son's marriage due to her ill temper.I was angry and asked her“Don't you consider your ill temper will destroy my marriage?”She comforted me and said：“Don't worry,If you are divorced ,your salary can raise you and your mom.That's ok."My mom,are you sure you are my real mom？Actually,I didn't write the troubling things until I saw the TV series of “ode to joy“,I found my original family likes Shengmei Fan's.We are all abducted by so-called kinship and ethics.From now on,I will live for myself,and become stronger.I will tell my daughter that you can live your own life,realize your dream and goals no matter you are a girl.I won't do the same things with gender discrimination to my daughter like my mom did.Because it is unfair for every girl.
