You need to use an ssh agent. Short answer: try
$ ssh-add
before pushing. Supply your passphrase when asked.
If you aren't already running an ssh agent you will get the following message:
Could not open a connection to your authentication agent.
In that situation, you can start one and set your environment up thusly
eval $(ssh-agent)
Then repeat the ssh-add command.
It's worth taking a look at the ssh agent manpage.