What distinguish self-fulfiller is their regonition of real world. Non-selffulfiller see the world in the way they like, while self-fulfiller observe the world as itself. I hope to join the first group. But what on earth brings them to this?It's love for the world, which I got from Wu Zhihong this morning. That was a hug Aha! for me. A frindly world is the best container for self. You do something and get positive feedback. Sometimes, negative results happen but you know you still can learn something from it. Is it amazing?
I can be smart, or dull.
I can be happy, or depressed.
I can pursue something, or give up.
It's all OK.
I'm not the one to blame, nor the world. That is it.
There're moments when people do feel the hostility and maliciousness from the outside specially in young age which ingraved in their life. Some may get rid of it, some might not. What do I ought to do in such circumstances? Well, What Wang Yangming‘ words gives the best illustration.
"
无善无恶心之体，
有善有恶意之动。
知善知恶是良知，
为善去恶是格物。
"
A harmless world is what humans strive for, though it's not the case all the time. With the light of self-growth, the weight of this sentence is outstanding.
how to interact with the world, with people,with himself, is the basic theme for all serious literature. The world is nice, I'm good, people are to work collaboratively is the underlying congnition for all things.
