Every cake counts

Do you want this cake ?

OK，wait ,let me try this for u . mm, really delicious. one more again (这里自己要演出来，道具是小cake, ok, if you want ,ok ,after the meeting)

OK ，here comes my story, A very  hungry guy hurried to buy something to eat .  He bought 2 cakes , btw in Chinese , named 烧饼.After he devoured the   2 cakes ,the two cakes didn't work and he was still hungry.He continued to buy and eat , one by one , until he ate the seventh one .He gave a loud burp. " finally ,I am full ".  It occured  to him that the seventh cake made him full   " Gosh, had I kown that  the seventh cake  worked , I  would have eaten the seventh cake straightly, so  I would  not have  lost so much time and money on the  first six cakes."

such a stupid guy ,right?

But in my life , I used to be  like the guy . As a girl in my age , most of my classmates have got married and had kids. And  even some of them have got married twice. Sure , an old girl, big face , no talent , ,no charming figure,no boyfriend became the big headache to my family. It really took great pain for my mom,especially my aunt to find a boyfriend for me. so, the first blind date journey started.

On Saturday morning, I was still in bed ,I received my aunt's call." hey，lulu ,get up ,get up ,  go preparing for your blind date ,the early bird catches worm."  "ok,ok" . Make up and dress up . I was going to meet the first blind date mate . I imagined thoundsands of times , he may be some kind of like a leading actor in the  korean series or he may be a very srong man who knows a little kongfu . Perhaps he can protect me in the future. when I saw him , I just wanna say 稍作停顿，the dream is plump but life is skinny.It seemed that I was stronger than him.  I still remembered, after dinner , when we walked out of the restaurant ,there was a heavy  glass door in front fo us.He intended to open the door for me like a gentleman, he tried but failed.Then, I walked forward and I did it easily. I opened the door for him.Then for several minutes we two were in total silence, then we said goodbye and never contacted again .

I  failed . My aunt ,a condfindent ，retired woman was determined to spared on effort to help me  find a boyfriend . gosh! (这里要不要改成讲话的形式)

Another morning , I was pushed to  blind date again, this time ,my Aunt made sure that the guy was very strong , most importantly ,very  knowledgeable. Ok ,this time I even prepared this date a month before. Every night, I applied a facial mask . I wore a long red dress, earring ,necklace ,of course ,a pair of high heel shoes  which I bought 2 weeks before the date. ok , My aunt was right .This guy, a college teacher, much higher than me, was in neat suit . However, during the meal ,he ordered the dishes and even did't ask me whether I liked them. Because I am vegetarian. That dinner, I just drank some juice. This guy talked from the very beginning to the end. In the end , I got the chance to say " you are too knowledgeble."  There is on doubt I failed again.

These are just 2 typical examples from my several blind date journeys.  Every time I failed in the blind date ,my Mom and Aunt alway blamed."LuLu, Don't be so picky, remember ,you are not somebody ,you are just an ordinary and old girl."  At that moment,  I  was down .  why I couldn't find the seventh  cake straightly , why I  lost so much time and energy in  blind dating . why the God Cupid didn't send me the my Mr right straightly?

Yes I am  like the man with 7 cakes. The story really dawns on me that  ,every bline date of my life  helps me to  recognize myself again, helps me to make it clear what kind of person I am , and what kind of person I am looking for .

Even if I am still not successful in blind date, one thing I am sure I am becoming a better girl and make it clear what I really want.

Thanks for all the cakes in my life . each  cake bulids up who I am now.