问题描述：我的女朋友假期要和几个朋友（有女的）出去，全部人要睡在同一个房间。我有些担心，是不是不对？
（这是一个Quora（国外的知乎）上的问答）
李贝琦：她有权利和你不认识的朋友自由地玩，又不是非得带你一起。
这也不意味着她要劈腿或者她不爱你呀。
二人世界外部的朋友圈对维持爱情是健康有益的。
只要你不能同行，盯着她，或者她跟你不认识的朋友出去，你就很不安。好像你不信任你的女票哦。
如果是她做过背叛你信任的事，那这段恋情不是早就名存实亡了。
如果这只是你的不安全感，唉，很正常，但它不对。你必须渡过和反省你的个人问题，你的个人情绪反应。
试着改变嫉妒心，就像控制火气一样。你必须控制，努力。
她和一群朋友一起去旅行没有什么错。
问题描述：是不是女生想要找对象的时候，才和男的暧昧？
李贝琦：怎么可能！
有些女人天生爱调情。
她们喜欢被爱，喜欢让男生自我感觉良好。喜欢暧昧的性格就跟戒不了毒瘾一样。
反正又不要钱。
问题描述：怎么大家都不来撩我？
李贝琦：对人家眨眼。立竿见影。
翻译此文是因为文章有趣，想要分享她的思想。另一方面，也可以给想要学习地道英语的人当材料。目前只翻译becky lee（我翻译成李贝琦）的回答。希望大家喜欢或者受到启发~
My girlfriend is going on holiday with several guys (andgirls) sleeping in in the same room. Am I wrong to feel insecure?
Becky Lee
Becky Lee
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She is allowed to have a free life with friends that youdon't know, and she isn't required to bring you along.
This doesn't mean she is going to cheat on you or doesn'tlove you.
It's healthy for a relationship to maintain groups offriends outside of the relationship.
It seems like you don't trust your girlfriend if you feelfear about not being there to keep an eye on her, or feel uneasy about herbeing around people that you don't know.
If she has done something to betray your trust, therelationship is dead in the water.
If this is your own insecurity, that's normal but itisn't acceptable. It's your personal problem, your personal emotional reactionthat you have to breathe through and reflect upon.
Try to treat jealousy like you would anger. It'ssomething you have to control and work through.
She has done nothing wrong in going on a trip with agroup of her friends.
Do women only flirt with a man when they're looking for a mate?
Becky Lee：
No way!
Some women are just flirts.
A flirtatious personality is addicted to making others feel good while simultaneously making themselves liked by others.
They are complimentary.
How come guys do not approach me?
Becky Lee：
Wink at them sometimes. It works.
原文地址：https://www.quora.com/My-girlfriend-is-going-on-holiday-with-several-guys-and-girls-sleeping-in-in-the-same-room-Am-I-wrong-to-feel-insecure/answer/Becky-Lee-11?srid=uw4wf
https://www.quora.com/Do-women-only-flirt-with-a-man-when-theyre-looking-for-a-mate/answer/Becky-Lee-11?srid=uw4wf
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