爱不是激情,
爱不是一种情绪。
爱是一种非常深刻的理解:
有人以某种方式使你完整。
有人让你成为一个完满的圆。
对方的存在会增强你的存在。
爱给予成为你自己自由;
而不是占有。
所以,注意——永远不要把性视为爱情,
否则你会被欺骗。
保持警觉,当你开始感觉
和某人在一起时,
除了纯粹的存在,
别无一物,
没有任何其他的需要;
没有什么要问,
只是存在,
另一个人的是,在,
足以让你快乐……
有些东西开始在你内在开花,
一千零一朵荷花开始绽放,
那么你是在爱中。
然后你就可以闲庭信步地走过,
现实生活创造的一切困难。
许多愤怒,许多焦虑
你将能够克服所有这些
你的爱会开花
越来越多,
因为所有这些情况都会成为挑战。
而你的爱,
通过克服它们,
会变得越来越强大。
爱是永恒。
如果爱在那儿,那就会不停的茁壮成长。
爱只知道开始,但不知道结局。
Osho成熟 - 做自己的责任
Love is not a passion,
love is not an emotion.
Love is a very deep understanding
that somebody somehow
completes you.
Somebody makes you a full circle.
The presence of the other enhances your presence.
Love gives freedom to be yourself;
it is not possessiveness.
So watch - never think of sex as love,
otherwise you will be deceived.
Be alert, and when you start feeling
with someone that just the presence,
the pure presence -
nothing else,
nothing else is needed;
you don't ask anything,
just the presence,
just that the other is,
is enough to make you happy...
Something starts flowering within you,
a thousand and one lotuses bloom,
then you are in love.
And then you can pass through all difficulties that reality creates.
Many anguishes, many anxieties -
you will be able to pass through all of them
and your love will be flowering
more and more,
because all those situations will become challenges.
And your love,
by overcoming them,
will grow more and more strong.
Love is eternity.
If it is there,
then it goes on growing and growing.
Love knows the beginning but does not know the end.
Osho 「Maturity - The Responsibility of Being Oneself」