You can not teach a man anything.You can onlyhelp him discover himself.

"Each human being is born as something new,something that never exist before.Each is born with the capacity to win at life.Each person has a unique way of seeing,hearing,touching,tasting and thinking.Each has his or her unique potentials-capanilities and limitations.Each can be a siginificant,thingking,aware and creative being-a pruductive person,a winner."

The word winner and loser have many meanings.When we refer to a persona s winner,we do not mean one who make someone else lose.

To us,a winner is one who reponds authentically by being credible,trustworthy,responsive,and geniune,both as an individul and as a member of a society.

Winners do not dedeicated their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be;rather,they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance,maintaining pretence and manipulating others.

They are aware that there is a difference between being loving and acting loving,between bestupid and acting stupid,between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable.Winners do not need to hide from a mask.

Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking or to use their own knowledge.They can seperate facts from opinions and don't pretend to have all the answers.They listen to others,evalaute what they say,but come to their own conclusions.Although winners can admire and respect other people,they are not totally defined,demolished,bound,or awed by them.

Winners do not play "helpless",nor do they play the blaming game,Instead, they asuume responsibility for their own lives.They don't give others a false authority over them.Winners are their own bosses and know it.

A winners timing is right,Winners respond appropriately to the siatuation.Their response are related to the message sent and preserve the