If you are trying to be patient you are already impatient. When there is true wisdom you don't have to try, you already feel patient and accepting.
你若努力变得耐心,你已经不耐烦了。有智慧时你没必要去这样努力,那时已经富有耐心、充满包容了。
个人注解:有耐心是内心平和的状态。当你想要什么时,有和无之间的对立造就了不平和,所以想要和耐心是不共存的。智慧消灭了想要的努力,耐心和满足自然而来。