总盯着你了不起的过去，你就不会有了不起的未来。- 奥斯卡·王尔德
按照传统，这应该是每个新年的第一篇推文。不过今年呢，L小姐没怎么留意时间，再加上中间穿插了“阳阳日记”，节奏全乱了。我们就在农历新年前发出来吧，希望可以陪伴大家一起迎接2023年的春节。
读书俱乐部自成立以来，每天早上都会分享“晨汤”，很多书友私下跟L小姐反馈，常常有些句子打动到、或者鼓励了他们。
过去33个月，我们至少分享了1000条句子，今年摘选的比较多，共90条，和大家重温一下这些简短的文字带给我们的力量吧。想看前两年版本的请戳这里《2021年正确打开方式》、《2022年正确打开方式》。
没有读到过这些句子的朋友们，一起来看看，有没有哪一句触动到你，欢迎来交流~
About Life/关于生活
We do not remember days, we remember moments.
我们往往记住的不是某一天，而是某个时刻。#1
You’ve got to get up every morning with determination if you’re going to go to bed with satisfaction.
如果晚上带着满意入睡，早上就会更有决心起床！#2
Don’t save something for a special occasion. Every day of your life is a special occasion.
千万不要把东西留在什么特殊的日子再用，其实生命中的每一天都是特殊的日子。#3
Of all ills that one endures, hope is a cheap and universal cure.
在人们所能忍受的一切苦难中，希望是唯一廉价而普遍的治疗方法。#4
There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.
今生只有一种幸福，那就是爱和被爱。#5
One small positive thought can change your whole day.
一个小小的积极想法可以改变你的一整天。#6
Optimism is the madness of insisting that all is well when we are miserable.
乐观主义是在我们痛苦的时候坚持一切都好的疯狂。#7
We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.
得到的东西让我们生存，而付出的东西给我们生活。#8
Happiness is inward, and not outward; and so, it does not depend on what we have, but on what we are.
幸福是内在的，而不是外在的；因此，这并不取决于我们拥有什么，而是取决于我们是什么样的人。#9
When things are going bad, there's going to be some good that's going to come from it.
当事情变得糟糕时，会有一些好的东西相伴而来。#10
I am enjoying my life because things aren’t going the way I planned.
我很享受我的生活，正因为事情并没有按我预想的发展。#11
Happiness is the real sense of fulfillment that comes from hard work.
快乐是从勤奋工作中得到的一种实实在在的成就感。#12
If life throws you a few bad notes or vibrations, don't let them interrupt or alter your song.
即使生活给了你一些不和谐的音符，也别让它们破坏你的人生之歌。#13
Sometimes people think they lose things, and they really didn't lose them, they just get moved.
人们有时候以为失去了什么，其实没有，它们只是被换了个地方。#14
If life hands us a problem, it hands us also the abilities with which to meet the problem.
如果生活抛给我们一个麻烦，它会同时抛给我们解决问题的能力。#15
About Kindness/关于善意
Love in its essence is spiritual fire.
从本质上讲，爱是一种精神之火。#16
Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood.
生活中没有什么可怕的东西，只有需要理解的东西。#17
Whenever I miss you, I look at my heart. Because it’s the only place I can find you.
每当我想你的时候，我都会看着我的心。因为，这是我唯一能找到你的地方。#18
There’s nothing more inspiring than the complexity and beauty of the human heart.
没有什么比人类心灵的复杂性和美丽更令人振奋的了。#19
It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.
正是在最黑暗的时候，我们必须聚焦在光亮之处。#20
Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom.
善良比智慧重要，承认这一点，才是智慧的开始。#21
The essence of all art is to have pleasure in giving pleasure.
乐于让他人愉悦是所有艺术的本旨。#22
The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said.
在交流中最重要的事情是倾听别人没有说的话。#23
Selfless giving is the art of living.
无私奉献是生活的艺术。#24
Happiness is a by-product of an effort to make someone else happy.
幸福是努力使他人快乐的副产品。#25
If the world seems cold to you, kindle fires to warm it.
假如这个世界对你显得冰冷，那就燃起烛火来温暖它吧！#26
The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves.
当指导别人时，有一个微妙的平衡点，那就是不能按照你的想象创造他们，而是给他们机会创造自己。#27
When a man is wrapped up in himself he makes pretty little package.
一个只顾自己的人不足以成大器。#28
Hate never solved nothing. But calm did. And thought did. Try it.
仇恨解决不了问题，但冷静可以，思考可以，试试吧。#29
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
即使是在至暗时代，快乐仍能被发现，只要有人记得打开一盏灯。#30
About Dream/关于梦想
Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.
成功是在失败中摸索，同时不失去热情。#31
If the highest aim of a captain were to preserve his ship, he would keep it in port forever.
如果船长的最高目标是保住他的船，那这艘船永远也出不了港。#32
Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you’ll be criticized anyway.
做你内心认为正确的事，因为你无论如何都会受到批评。#33
Nurture your mind with great thoughts. To believe in the heroic makes heroes.
以伟大的想法滋润心灵，相信伟大的事，才会成为伟大的人。#34
One of the greatest feelings in the world is knowing that we as individuals can make a difference.
世界上最伟大的感觉之一就是知道我们作为个体可以有所作为。#35
Dreams are the seeds of change. Nothing ever grows without a seed, and nothing ever changes without a dream.
梦想是改变的种子。没有种子就不会生长，没有梦想就不会改变。#36
One way to keep momentum going is to have constantly greater goals.
保持前进动力的方法就是,一直拥有更远大的目标。#37
It is better to create than to learn! Creating is the essence of life.
创造比学习更好！创造是生命的本质。#38
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
没有热情，任何伟大的事业都不会成功。#39
Courage is not the absence of fear, but simply moving on with dignity despite that fear.
真正的勇者不是没有恐惧，他们只是明白有比恐惧更重要的东西。#40
Never give up trying to build the world you can see, even if others can’t see it.
永远不要放弃尝试建立你可以看到的世界，即使别人看不到它。#41
The secret of happiness is freedom, the secret of freedom is courage.
快乐的秘诀是自由，而自由的秘诀是勇气。#42
If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.
如果你希望生活能幸福快乐，为你的生活寻找一个目标，而不要把生活依赖于任何的人或者事上。#43
You don't change the world simply by looking at it, you change it through the way you choose to live in it.
仅仅观望是改变不了世界的，你选择的生活方式才能改变世界。#44
Don’t wait for someone to bring you flowers. Plant your own garden and decorate your own soul.
不要等别人给你送花。种下自己的花园，装饰自己的灵魂。#45
About Action/关于行动
Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless.
局限只存在于我们的大脑中。如果我们运用自己的想象力，就会获得无限的可能性。#46
Decide what you want, decide what you are willing to exchange for it. Establish your priorities and go to work.
明确你的目标，明确你愿意为这个目标牺牲的东西。分清轻重缓急，然后就去干。#47
Small deeds done are better than great deeds planned.
已经完成的小事，胜于计划中的大事。#48
All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.
人生就是不断尝试。尝试得越多，做得越好。#49
Moving on doesn’t take a day, it takes lots of little steps to be able to break free of your broken self.
向前看并不需要一整天，它只需要很多小步骤来摆脱破碎的自我。#50
Plans are only good intentions unless they immediately degenerate into hard work.
计划只是好的意图，除非立即努力去做。#51
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
现在就开始吧。未来不向任何人承诺。#52
If you wait, all that happens is that you get older.
如果你继续等待，迎接你的只有衰老。#53
Putting off an easy thing makes it hard, and putting off a hard one makes it impossible.
拖延一件小事会使之变得棘手；拖延一件棘手的事会使之变得无法完成。#54
It is while you are patiently toiling at the tasks of life that the meaning and shape of great whole of life dawn on you.
当你耐心做好生活中的小事，生命整体的意义和样子才会明朗起来。#55
You don't raise your game by talking or thinking. You raise your game through action.
光靠交谈和思考，提升不了自己。真正的提升，靠的是实际行动。#56
Every difficulty slurred over will be a ghost to disturb your repose later on.
每一个你闪躲的困难，将来都会如鬼魂般打扰你的安宁。#57
The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet.
愚者求福于远方，智者培植于脚下。#58
Don’t let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.
别让你不能做的事妨碍到你能做的事。#59
If we're honest with ourselves, then it all comes down to chance. I guess life is about grabbing those chances when they come around.
如果我们对自己坦诚，那它其实就是机会的问题。我想生活就是在这些机会到来时抓住它们。#60
About Persistence/关于坚持
A surplus of effort could overcome a deficit of confidence.
超额的努力能够克服自信的缺漏。#61
Perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after the other.
坚持不是长跑，它是一个接一个的冲刺。#62
Luck is a dividend of sweat. The more you sweat, the luckier you get.
好运是汗水的红利。你流汗越多，运气就越好。#63
Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work.
才华比餐桌上的盐还便宜，区别有才华者与成功者的是许多的努力。#64
Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.
我们最大的弱点就是容易放弃。保证成功的要诀就是永远都再多试一次。#65
The deep roots never doubt spring will come.
深深的根从不怀疑春天会来。#66
Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.
态度是一件小事，却会引起翻天覆地的变化。#67
Perseverance is the hard work you do after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did.
虽然你厌烦辛苦的工作，但你依然坚持去做，这就是毅力。#68
Never consider the possibility of failure; as long as you persist, you will be successful.
永远不要考虑失败的可能性；只要你坚持，你就会成功。#69
When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.
当一切似乎都对你不利时，请记住，飞机是逆风飞翔的，而不是顺风起飞。#70
People do not lack strength; they lack will.
人们并不缺乏力量；他们缺乏意志。#71
Fortitude is the guard and support of the other virtues.
坚韧是所有美德的守护和支持。#72
I didn't get there by wishing for it or hoping for it, but by working for it.
我的成功不是靠愿望或期盼，而是靠努力。#73
The primary sign of a well-ordered mind is a man's ability to remain in one place and linger in his own company.
一个人头脑清楚的首要标志是他能够待在一个地方，并且能忍受孤独。#74
Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe.
信仰是相信你所不能看到的，回报是看到你所相信的。#75
About Self-improving/关于成长
I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it.
我深信运气，事实上我发现工作越努力，我的运气就越好。#76
Always remember that you are absolutely unique; just like everyone else.
永远记住你是独一无二的，就像其他人一样。#77
As is our confidence, so is our capacity.
人有多自信，就有多强大。#78
Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
记住，如果有时候没有得到你想要的，其实这是在攒运气呢。#79
It is never too late to be what you might have been.
去成为你本应该成为的人，任何时候都不算晚。#80
Growth is the only evidence of life.
成长是生命的唯一证据。#81
Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more hurtful to us than the injury that provokes it.
无法控制的怒火伤害自己甚于伤害他人。#82
There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.
这个宇宙中只有一个角落你肯定可以改进，那就是你自己。#83
Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves.
迷失自我，才能发现自我。#84
When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need.
当我放下自己的时候，我成了我可能成为的样子。当我放弃我所拥有的东西时，我得到了我所需要的。#85
There are three things extremely hard: steel, a diamond, and to know one’s self.
有三样东西是极其坚硬的，钢铁、钻石以及认识自己。#86
Accept no one's definition of your life, define yourself.
不要接受任何人对你生活的定义，定义自己。#87
You’ve got to find yourself first. Everything else’ll follow.
你必须先找到自己。其他一切都会随之而来。#88
Why are you trying so hard to fit in when you were born to stand out?
如果你生来就与众不同，何苦非要融入这群乌合之众？#89
What's in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.
姓名本身是没有意义的。我们叫作玫瑰的这一种花，要是换了个名字，它的香味还是同样的芬芳。#90
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