为什么原则重要?
- 帮助我们得到我们所想要的东西;
- 所有成功人士都有原则;
- 没有原则的人,就会随波逐流,飘到哪是哪,这会让你得不到你想要的东西;
- 原则有利于帮助人们互相了解,和团队协作;
Why are principles important?
1.Esssiential for getting what we want out of life.
2.if we want to understand each other.we need ot understand each other’s principles.
3.All successful people have principles.
4.without principles you will be forced to react to circumstances that you don’t know what you value most,and how to get what you want most.this will prevent you from making most of your life.
5.without principles ,people in groups will not understand how to behave consistent with others.
原则究竟是什么?它像灯塔指引着你的行为朝着你的目标前进,帮助你做出艰难的决定(潜台词是,不是你想做一件事情,你就能“搜”的一下得到)
What are principles?
Allow your action consistent with your values.(values are about what you consider is important ).
They like beacons guide you behaviors and help you face hard choices.
怎么样获取原则?从自己的经验中反思获取,或接受,经过认真思考后的别人原则
How to get principles?
1.forge them by yourself from our own experiences and reflections on those experiences.
2.accept others’ principles ,even holistic packaged principles.(it is not necessarily a bad thing to use others’ principles,but having others’ without much thought may lead a risk of inconsistency to your true values. )
怎么样使用原则?不停的反问,不停实践,不停的迭代,最好能记录在纸上;
How to use principles?
1.ask:why?to make principles better and consistent with our core values.
2.carefully consider and try to operate others’ principles , one day,the principles will evolve from" others’ principles" to "my principles”.”others’”will fade from picture in much same way as memories of ski instructor and basketball coach fade after you have masteredd the sports.
3.adopting pre-packaged principles without much thought is risky,please ask “is it true ?”
4.at most ,those principles in document can be one reference for people to consider the choice about what is important and how to act.