My ex-colleague quit her job while she was pregnant.

Her mother remarried when her father died many years ago. She has a younger brother whom i saw when he went to University as a new student. Because of her family was too poor to afford her brother tuition. So she paid the fee for her brother.

Since her factory has been dead for many years, her mother was not able to afford her University tuition, so she has to apply for students load and finished her University studying.

She is very excellent and good at Computer and English, whose major was in computer programming. When I met her at my first job,I graduated from School, she already has worked for two years and resigned her first job that was relevant to computer administration and found a job in our this trading company.  Her spoken English was not but it didn’t influence her working. She got many orders in the first year, but i was too new in business to get orders.

She was proficient in using computer. She also has learned about stock, insurance,financing and so on. She wanted to buy a house  and thought the price of real estate was not high in 2005 and the price must rise in the future. As she said the real estate price was rising every day in 2007 ,but she hasn’t bought the house. She thought the price was too high and should come down. As she expected, the price came down in 2008 year, but she still hasn’t bought the house. However, during that time, all my colleagues bought the house and married.

She has a boy friend and they knew each other many years.Finally, they married in 2008 and celebrated the wedding with our another colleagues together. Few people were invited to come to the wedding party but only colleagues,her mother also hasn’t come.

Then she was pregnant and left NINGBO to her husband hometown. She thought NINGBO real estate price was too high. She only can afford her husband hometown house.

After One thing happened, I think her husband was incredible. When she was pregnant in seven months, they want to go picnicking,but sleeping over night in their tent.

I heard she had a baby that has 4.3kgs by a vaginal delivery. I think she is very brave as a mother. She hasn’t attended the working any more but have to look after her daughter.

The thought is important, but the action is more important. Without action after thinking is nothing.  

March 9，2017