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停下来扪心自问:你有没有高傲地自认为“太聪明”?如果你向来自恃聪明,或许该认真反省了。这种心态对生活和工作反而具有破坏性。面对现实并不容易---为什么说你没有自认为的那样聪明?或许以下就是原因。请往下读,看看你是否也有这些表现吧:
1、爱倾诉,不擅倾听
不管是否意识到,你都喜欢表达自己。跟你在一起,别人根本就无法倾诉烦恼或庆贺成功,因为你一直在滔滔不绝谈论自己的烦恼或成功。
如果你是这种人,那么下次跟人交谈时,请下意识学着倾听、去关注别人在讲什么吧。不要总是抢着说话,请倾听!
2、只炫耀好的一面,还会编造一些
隐藏自己的真实性格,常常戴着面具。虽然约见重要人物时,展现自己最好的一面也无可厚非,但会因此得寸进尺:为了给人留下好印象,你不停撒谎。
聪明的人看重真实,不会为了看上去优秀而伪装自己。炫耀自己好的一面并加以粉饰,长此以往只会让你疲惫不堪。
You should stop and ask yourself : Do you arrogant think yourself too smart ? If you always think self-reliance smart , maybe you should seriously reflect . This mentality possess deatructive effect for your life and job . In the face of the fact is not easy ---Why I said you didn't thought that smart ? Maybe hereinafter own the reason . Continue reading please , check it out do you have these expression :
1、You will like pour out something , but not good at listen something .
Whatever you can or can't realize this fact , you always like pour out yourself . When someone stay with you , they can't pour out their annoyance or celebrate succeed because you still talking about your annoyance and succeed .
If you are this people , when you talk to someone try study listen and attention they talking about next time . Don't always grab pour out yourself , just listen please .
2、Just flaunt the good side of you , and also make up something .
Conceal your real character , you always wear a mask , show your best side it's ok , but you get much will have more : For make a good impression , you will ceaseless lie .
The samrt people value the fact , they won't pretend theyselves just for it seems that excellent . Flaunt the good side of you and even whitewash , that will let you become exhaustion .